How many on here has actually found a real date on this site?

I have. I regret it full heartedly. It was the worst mistake of my life. He lived in New Jersey while I was in California. I was so in love with this person, that I payed more than $500 just for him to fly to California and stay for a week. We only lasted for 9 months.

Sorry to hear that didn't work out. Mine only lasted 7 months but I don't regret it nor the money spent which was even more than that but I get the feeling that yours didn't end smoothly.