This is different

I met the perfect girl on eharmony just a few days ago, and we hit it off great. I have not even known her for a week, and since we met we have been texting, and gaming with eachother all day. the only catch is that she lives far away. I am 21, and she is 25. She just got out of a three year relationship, and lived together with the guy for two years. She just moved out of the apartment they shared just last week. I genuinely think she is the coolest, and most beautiful girl in the world. She said that she did not want to make any connections right now, because she does not know what is going on with her situation. I just don't understand this. Does she just need time to move on from her ex, and then maybe our friendship will turn into something more? Or is she just not interested?

I don't know! You should ask her! Unless we have any remote viewers here, you'll have to find out for yourself what this individual girl means by that.

Just be careful with long distance. It can be difficult, but is rewarding in the long run. Kittie and I are making it work because eventually, I'll either save up enough money to move to Cali or move into my own place and move her here. Anyway, she probably needs time to move on and think over things. Everyone is different with how they cope with a breakup, no matter the severity of it. Give her time and take things slowly with her.