Has a relationship ever worked out for you when...

Why would it work? Those are the foundations of any kind of relationship, friendship or otherwise. I've only ever broken up or lost friends when those things are missing. The only people who hang on in those situations are desperate enough for anything that they just ignore reality in exchange for a false perception of things.

If you want it to work, it's going to take commitment from both parties. Whoever broke the trust has to understand their partners struggle with trusting them again and be patient, realizing that rebuilding that trust will take time. They also need to make a concious effort to actively regain that trust. The person whose trust has been broken needs to work towards forgiveness and try to put the issue behind them. Ask yourself if it's worth losing the relationship over, and proceed accordingly. A solid relationship; be it friendly, familial, or romantic, cannot survive without trust. It is imperative that it be repaired if the relationship is important to you. Humans are fallible and will inadvertently dissapoint you. Don't set yourself up for a fall by having unrealistic expectations. Likewise, make sure you put other people's feelings first, and don't put yourself in situations where you are likely to do something that will hurt someone important to you. ...and that concludes the sermon. *gets off soapbox*

When a relationship is like that then it's way, way more work than it's worth if you ask me. If there's no truth or faith between me and my partner then I'd end the relationship in a heartbeat. Because it's really not worth going through the bullshit if you ask me.

It takes trust to have a relationship or both of you will doubt everything the other person says or does. In my experience, if you don't have any trust you become like a caged bird with no freedom.

At the start of my longest relationship, I was very suspicious of my boyfriend. I just felt that something wasn't right. I called him out on it and we had some pretty big fights. I think I ended up telling him that he was basically being the worst douche bag and I wasn't going to stay with him if he couldn't get his shit straightened out. In the end, he apologized and worked on it and we were pretty happy for the two years we were together.

Trust is necessary for any relationship to work -- professional, personal, romantic, name it -- any relationship. :) On the context of romance, though, I can say that based on my experience with long-term relationships, it's much easier to recapture/rekindle lost love than to recover/rebuild lost trust or lost respect.

Ringo chan wow thats so amazing I never looked at trust like that like wowwww what happened with your exes tell me please share you wisdom and experience ??