Would You Ever Date A Trans Girl? Why Or Why Not????

Hey. So. This is a throwaway account. I am a pretty active user on this site/forum but I don't want to be 'out' as trans (yet) on here. I have a lot of friends on here but they don't know that I am an trans girl. I met some of these close friends over a year ago on here. What do I do? I have a secret crush on one of my friends on here but they don't know. They are my best friend. Hes my sunshine. I know that I have to tell him that I am trans before he can choose to date me or not. I'm nervous that he won't like me anymore though because I am not a cis girl. I am pre-op everything. My body is 100% male. What would you do if you were my crush? And. Yaa. I am listed as a girl on my main real account on here if you were curious.

Confess to him<3 It's better to know that you tried than wonder what if.

It doesn't matter what we think tho. The only opinion that matter is that guy. so qft@wert words. Good luck

go for it that you in the past this is you now go for it

If it were me that'd be a big nope, but that's just me. many of the people I've meet (especially in the anime community) are very open to that sort of thing, so I'd say there's a decent enough chance they'd be cool with it. I even know more than a few who actually prefer traps over the alternative with plenty of good reasons to support their interests. Just give it a shot with the guy and see if it works out, and here's wishing you the best of good luck.

He thinks your cis female, Jeez, well if he's really your friend he won't care. Wouldn't confess your love to him straight after you come out though it'll be too much to process, you'll probably just end up being rejected outright which means you won't feel good about being openly trans, probs have a major dysphoria downward spiral. Trust me, being open with you sexual Identity is important. Otherwise people will interpret it as you lying to them.

Lol I wouldnt really mind... If i love you... If i care about you... There are always stupid people leaving cute little children that we can adopt ^-^ The only minus there is a one hole less... But i guess thay fine... If i love you i wouldnt mind.

Well, I know it's not me, I'm not charismatic enough to be anybody's "sunshine". Depends lots on the person. For me, I'm generally straight as in I'm attracted to femininity. So it more depends on how well you can pass and if you are on HRT. Also it's not really something you could say for sure online. Like any other potential relationship, you need to spend physical time with the person. Except for the few people on here who are pansexual/panromantic and asexexual/greysexual/demisexual/etc. who don't care and are fine with any romantic relationship.