FATTIES

The OCD I somewhat have demands I be with someone on equal terms to me. Meaning body type, personality, interests, and some other random crap I can't think of. I have a slight fear of death by snu snu due to my skinny twig of a body. There are some people here that are bigger that I find quite cute and attractive. But depending on their self-esteem levels, I might avoid them because I don't want to hear about how they're so big and I'm so small almost every single time we're together. My ex kept complaining to me about how I was smaller than her and it truly annoyed me. She refused to accept me for licking her size and just complained about herself and my size because I can't eat much. I may be shallow at times but if I find you attractive then accept it! Don't worry about other people. And that's my reason.

I feel like people only date others just for there looks now a days. cause i feel like people should date others not by their looks but the kind of heart, mind or personality that they have. Cause as for me i don't care if your big, skinny, small/big breast, small/big butt , i'm only looking at your personality and type of person you are and if you catch my interest i would go for you.that how feel about things

Thank you people for your comments and input, It's always good to see how other people view this type of thing, at least other otakus. -Nodnod- I appreciate people who end up loving someone not for their looks but for what's inside cause it is rather hard to come across those type of people now and days.. I still find it very hard to find someone, cause I'm just afraid that they won't like me in reality..LOL Probably doesn't help I never had an actual relationship..lol

I wouldn't mind dating a bigger person if they are willing to workout with me. Like we can do physical exercise together. And yes being big is unattractive and also unhealthy. I'd be scared that if we were going out that my gf would die before me leaving me alone in this world. That's another reason why I won't date a big girl. When I say big I mean like huge girl. Oh and forgot to mention that as long as you got a cute face to me then being fat isn't much of a problem as long as your not like extremely over weight.

I have no problem with bigger people, I have a problem with bigger people that refuse to accept they are unhealthy that way and ( health problems aside ) try to aggressivly convince themselves that they are perfectly healthy. If your bigger and you know and accept it, thats fine with me, if you have a health problem, thats comepletly understandable, but i just cant stand the ones that think there perfect and everyone is out to get them for some stupid reason. As for me personally , I have no problem dating someone bigger, if your much larger to the point were its a major risk to your health and its not for a health related reason, I would be with that person because I liked them, not for looks but if they were big to a unhealthy degree I would try to convince them to lose weight. I feel I kinda worded that last part a bit wierd, any questions let me know.

Being a larger person doesn't exactly make you unhealthy. Your BMI (Body Mass Index if I remember correctly) is a good indication of that. I've been around plenty of large ppl who are in as good or better shape than me. Just depends on your idea of in shape, I suppose. And yes, I have no problem dating a "thick" woman lol.

thick girl, fat girl, skinny girl they can all get it http://i.imgur.com/uwofEVA.png this will be us