FATTIES

While I won't go into details, I will say that I find bigger women to be more attractive on average. But that's just my personal preference.

I would say that there are too much pervert people that only look at the body image and not their mind image. But the other reason can be because, they like people who have good control of their body figure. If a fat guy thinks he deserves a skinny girl then thats too selfish, so fat should date fat easily, if they really want love. Its just my opinion.

I wouldn't mind, if she promises to work out daily with me.

I'd like to add on some hidden points to what I said originally. I wouldn't mind dating an over weight person BUT I will push them lose wait. I won't be forceful about it but I will subliminally encourage things like a walk in the park.

A Smile, And if they don't, what then? It's a slippery slope to say you'd help them, but if you go under the guise of "saviour", you're bound to fail. If you can't take them at their worst, you don't deserve their best. Just my opinion.

Burning, There's some truth to it. But, that doesn't mean you have to put up with complete bull shit either. You should have standards after all. When you go into a relationship, it's for a reason and that reason should be quite clear for both parties. No need to try to "fix" if that's not what was in a word, "agreed" upon from the get go. (You can't help someone who doesn't want to help themselves.) Ulterior motives, works in progress and misguided intentions usually fail or just end up with one or both parties getting hurt. I'm only commenting about this because I don't believe people understand how they're coming across or how liking a person should be. Besides, everyone seems to think they're so accepting when they're single, but then whine because they can't find someone that meets their standards or accepts them and yet they wonder why they have such bad luck while being so "accepting" themselves.(Think double standards.) In other words, I don't think most are as accepting as they think they are, even when they say "If they work on it.". I suppose it doesn't affect me on a personal level, but I hate lies, two faced facades and selfishness. I know that if I were looking, I'd rather hear the bold truth rather than hopeful lies. However, I doubt anyone would get lucky by saying "I'll date you if you exercise with me and lose weight.". If you need the person to be fit, be honest and stick with fit people. But again, these are just my meager opinions. I just comment to add a differing view.