Your worst exs?
Chocopyro @chocopyro
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Chocopyro @chocopyro
I try to stay on good terms with my exes, so I'm not going to say anything too mean about them. Every relationship should be honored, as every one of them should teach you more about yourself, and that's knowledge that could be used to better yourself for the next one. Unless you utterly lack self awareness.
But I'm glad I'm not the only person here who can claim he dated a Yandere or two. They're not as fun outside of anime.
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Yuusaku @yuusaku_godai
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Yuusaku @yuusaku_godai
Something I wrote up in a different topic but it's about my worst ex.
https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B2nwKrsRDBbkb0NRRHR6T1p3b2s
Cero @cero
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Juveh @juveh
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Juveh @juveh
Had a crush on a girl for 7 years and I finally asked her out,l. Treated her with respect and loved her, we rarely got into arguements. I literally was about to buy her a BMW 328 Xi because it was her favorite car. I go on vacation to Florence and I find out via Facebook that she was kissing another man who in the end she eventually married..5 years later I get a random text from her that she wanted to meet up so we did. She told me she wanted to divorce her husband who's
always overseas and barely sees him and she wants to get back together with me..I
laughed so hard and I told to go you know where. In the end Karma's a bitch
shoemaker @shoemaker
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shoemaker @shoemaker
My last ex was suicidal, into magic, and could rip a car door right off the car. I don't care how kinky or hot she was, I was gone.
K @hothentaiwaifu
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K @hothentaiwaifu
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Mylovelyreaper @rukia21love
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Mylovelyreaper @rukia21love
My last ex was emotionally abusive towards me, cheated on me twice. Would never let me speak my mind when I had or saw something wrong in our relationship. Would also bully me by calling me names, that I was lucky to have him stuff like that. Left him after I just desided to no longer put up with his shit. Found out recently he was also two timing me.
Lesson learned just let karma do her job because she'll eventually come and bit him in the ass hard. I know my value as a person and I don't deserve to go through the shit he put me through.
115 @siruboo
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115 @siruboo
They say being alone is better then being with someone you don't like.
I haven't had a girlfriend, but if I can't have a relaxing time I'm not going to like the person. My whole life I've been in a house with people that drive me crazy
dandaman @dantheman06
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dandaman @dantheman06
My worst ex is Worst/Best since she the only ex.
So I guess there wasn't too much besides the fact she didn't communicate very often. And not just me being worried, but like:
2 weeks no answer kinda long, ya know?
Yuki @ichigo55
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Yuki @ichigo55
My worst ex...was my last ex.
Well, it wasnt as crazy as some of these stories Ive read so far. It definitely wasnt involving crime. But, this is my worst ex, with worst meaning the one that left me the most emotionally destroyed.
On top of this, it was a long distance relationship.
She would emotionally abuse me. She threatened to leave me more than three times, and then claimed I was the one who tried to leave. She complained about my oversensitivity so many times. All I did was try to get her to tell me what was wrong (I knew her well. I knew when something was wrong) and she told me nothing was wrong, telling me I overreact. But then later I find something is wrong, and she claims I dont care.
I was never mad or upset with her, but she was. Even when I tried to comfort her, she treats me so coldly.
It didnt take long until I found out she was lying to me. It was just a small lie. She didnt tell me anything about friends, yet she said she was going to watch a game since her friend invited her. She didnt even like sports. I question this, and, get told about how Im just being oversensitive. As small as that lie seemed, I just knew something was off. The things she told me felt more and more inconsistent.
She seemed to talk about things we enjoyed together less. She seemed less and less interested in lewd things. She seemed less interested in me. She just changed, and I noticed even the most microscopic of changes.
I feared change that day...
I found out about interests she didnt seem to have before. She was out with friends. She was more busy with homework. She was becoming distant with me emotionally, even when she still said she loved me and seemed to still care. But deep down, she was missing to me.
She just wasnt the same person anymore...
She wasnt as compassionate. She wasnt as loving or affectionate. She wasnt as caring. She wasnt the same...
One day, she just told me she didnt feel love anymore.
Usually, when she tried to leave me, I threatened to kill myself, and that seemed to work.
Yes, Im aware thats beyond unhealthy.
But, when it worked and she stayed, I still felt empty. What if all Im doing is dragging this relationship on? What if Im only extending the due date of our end..?
In the end, It was simply unavoidable.
I didnt even threaten anything this time...Because I knew she was really going this time..
She left. Without ever looking back.
Months pass. Not a single word of her existence to me.
Left utterly powerless.
And all I had left, were the pictures of her in my phone...
This is why I usually tell people long distance relationships are rarely successful.
To this day, I remember it all, and realize it was my own fault too.
Never take the love given by someone else for granted. Not for a single moment.
Even now, when talking to a potential partner, I get extremely paranoid and self aware of what I say or do. Because losing someone is a painful thing.
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