Your worst exs?

After a year of being friends with my ex she told me I was the only one she ever really liked/loved. She wanted to get back together, so I decided to give it a try. After two weeks we ended up with the same problems and I broke up with her again. I found out that during those two weeks she'd slept with four different guys aside from me. It appears the fact that I came closer and closer to her and her fear of attachement led to her sabotaging the last chance she had of getting together with me. In the end I'm just sorry for her, but she's definitely the worst, because my other ex was great and we're still friends.

My last ex, Crazy girl. Twice planned on leaving me for other guys, lied about it too. You know, "we're just friends" or "he's my ex and i dont want him i want you" In short, through out the time we were dating and mainly through out the time i thought we were the closest, celebrating holidays together like love birds, she was planning on hooking it up with another guy while he visited or when she visited him. Over all just betrayal and bs.She told one guy that we were broken up, so come to find out they were a little thing behind my back. But heeeey, i paid for her rent and bills and kept her kids feed. Nice dumb bitch of a girl. Anyways. Blah. Im not sad about it, just found out and it makes me feel better knowing im not the reason it failed. it was her for being such a scum bag

2 years wasted on a piece of shit woman who didn't care for me, never told me she cared and when she did it was horribly insincere and only made me feel like I was the bad guy when she was the shitty one in the relationship please give me back those 2 years I wasted on your ass so I can give them to my current (ACTUALLY GOOD) girlfriend/fiance

It's all how it's perceived. In theory, none of my ex's were bad because they were learning experiences for the next. You can't predict how somebody will be, but you can prepare. You learn what you like in a woman; what you dont like.. What you need and dont need in a relationship. I've had my share of bad relationships, but each of them taught me something. A shame though since the trade off was a sense of insecurity/trust issues. :\ BUT! I'm working on it.. that's what matters. Silver lining, guys.

This happened in my early 20s. We dated for about three months. In that entire time, I dont think she once asked about my family or friends and barely about my interests. And even when I brought up stuff, usually at most I got a passing "thats nice" from her. Now I dont expect it to be all about me and my interests, but when 80% of the shit we talked about was you and whats happening in your life, that shit gets old pretty quick. Its probably a big reason why it only lasted as long as it did and why I'm leery of women who obsess about themselves and barely take much interest in the lives of the guy theyre dating.

I only count them as "exes" if we dated for longer than a week. The worst in my case was a girl I dated for a month in college. I probably should have picked up on the fact that something was off about her, because the guy that introduced me had just broken up with her a month earlier. She was absolutely GORGEOUS, which made it all the more disappointing that she had a grating personality. She was very socially awkward, and said all kinds of weird things all the time. She had absolutely no filter and would inadvertently insult people. It got to the point that I was embarrassed to be around her in public. Plus, she was waaaaay too into me after only a month. She started calling me in the middle of the night because she was worried I was mad at her. She's gotten a lot better over the years and we've managed to become pretty good friends in spite of our differences. She now actually lives in Japan with a Japanese guy she married.