post sexy pics of yourself

You are just looking in the wrong places i feel, if all the men in a certain area are looking for something specific maybe its just where you are looking to find then. You arent gonna be looking in a strip club for a conservative Christian woman, so if you go there expecting to find one and dont maybe you should look somewhere else type deal. Dating in general has been getting worse and worse thanks to social media. So while i dont doubt some guys only want pretty. Not every single guy is like that. It could also be a factor of there are guys who like you but because you dont like them you dont havr luck. And then the guys that you DO like dont like you back because they want the pretty girls.

Yeah it's probably my fault that I'm single/lonely. I'm not very good at communicating and am very cerebral. That doesn't seem to click well with most people and doesn't seem to be very charming lmao.

I won't doubt that I'm probably in a very wrong community to find the decent men who aren't judgemental and shallow. It would be nice to have a sign on where the right place is, but reality doesn't give that. Instead I have to try and figure out that answer myself. It's one of those things where it's a mystery that can be either solved or unsolved. Won't know till I'm dead.

I know right! When did Panda-kun become the voice of reason? Fuckd me!

Im only giving advice based on my own experience as a male who didnt have luck finding a partner. My girlfriend was the one who approached me lol so i mean it does work. If she hadnt done that we probably wouldnt have crossed paths. I didnt know she felt that way until she told me. Its all just a big game tho, dating takes luck and patience. But you are kinda running out of time. Im sure you want kids and all that (if not then excuse me) now is the time for proactive movements

Panda never seemed like the illogical type, so I'm really not surprised that he's trying to give a neutral type advice that doesn't point fingers at anybody.

If this new guy wasn't in such a secluded department I would be trying to befriend him and hopefully get him to like me enough to wanna date me if he has a good personality. Unfortunately I rarely see this man do I have yet to do so.