So what are the top five traits one looks for in a guy/girl

I just had this question asked to me and I answered with Personality, they have to be charming. Have that persona that eases atmosphere and makes people want to be around him or more importantly me around him They have to get along with my friends, I find it easier on relationships if this is a factor. In all honesty I wouldn’t trade my friends for a relationship ever, I mean the friends I have now, 4 in particular are like family to me even if our interests are different. I want them to be adventurous, and by that I include being open-minded.I want them to accept me as if. I want to be able to try new things, and be corny. I want to go on road trips, or to Ikea and use the furniture there to pretend we are in a 50’s sitcom. Maybe go to an anime con with me or we got together and cosplay for the first time I want them to be like a best friend too, because that’s the best situation ever. Having your lover also be your best friend. Maybe I'm too picky but those rules are easily bendable those are just guidelines or something like that

first off as far as I'm concerned your significant other should also be your best friend so that's a given. Not necessarily though that your best friend would be your bf/gf though it happens from time to time. As for personal 5 things I'd like in a person. 1. I'd like them to be intelligent. A lot of people in the bay talk and act like they are from some where that schools don't exist and it makes everyone seem a bit unintelligent. So to find a intelligent and wise girl would be amazing. 2. As you said they should work with my friends I have gone on dates with people and if my friends don't approve it usually doesn't work out anyways plus then she can come over and watch anime with all of us and cuddle on the couch XD 3. She should be able to be independent and have her own life but still care when we haven't hung out in a while. Like my friend was in a relationship where the girl was way to clingy and didn't really have a life or friends of her own so she basically only talked to him all the time and wanted to hang with him all the time but people need their space. So a good balance of being able to do her own thing wile still caring what I'm doing and it would be the same for me. 4.She doesn't have to be into anime or music but she should be open to trying it out before just shooting it down same with food. 5. she should just be fun to be around. Kinda like just be down to hang out at the house and watch movies or go out and try something new. :P On a side note I would really like someone to cosplay/geek out with Xd just saying.

Hmm valid points Souls very valid. I especially agree on the whole they have to be open I think that's a big one if your an otaku or somewhat close to it. Along with personal space, that's a big one since a balance between that makes a huge difference in the relationship

I learned a valuable lesson on my last relationship. She broke up with me because she found out that i was into anime and she didn't like it -_-. She said "anime is for little kids and its childish" I don't agree on what she said but i guess its better to find someone who likes you for who you are. I think its hard to find someone who is into the same things you are.

^^^ Agreed I don't mind if they aren't into the same things but they could at least be open about it and I'd be open in return, example I suck at sports besides tennis haha. Yet I'm willing to open up and go play basketball or something with people, if they are willing to be open with my passions it's how people in my point of view grow and learn

@rollingstar01 yup i agree with you. Im always willing to try new things. In high School, I played football for two years and this was when I wasn't into anime. My friend introduce me to naruto and ever since then I become a huge anime fan. I made many friends because I was willing to try something new,

I'd want a friendship, some understanding (partially because I'm a harsh critic on myself, and I get episodes and shit, and some baggage? :\), kindness, playful-ness and respect. I like to be playful, there's always a time to be playful and a time to be serious. I giggle and stuff, a lot, especially around my close friends. I'm also an open book, which is a pro and a con :|

Someone I can be affectionite/perverted with/on (if their not cool with displaying affection in public thats fine, but I do so they have to be semi okay with it) They have to be cool with my friends (their my family) They have to be okay with my impulsive random decisions (its a quirk ;D) Making me laugh gives you brownie points (but dont be a douche)

#1 Someone perverted #2 A sense of humor #3 Someone that is cool with who I am and my interests (Doesn't have to be a gamer or watch anime. As long as they don't try to prohibit me or change me) #4 Someone with a goal or higher expectations of themselves (Life put together and not a bum) #5 Someone who doesn't worship the ground I walk on (Super clingy can be a bad thing and not cute at all)