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So what are the top five traits one looks for in a guy/girl

rezikai
#1 Personal hygiene - i don't care how nice or good looking someone is, if they don't keep themselves clean then that's an immediate red flag. #2 Personality - Preferably a girl with a good sense of humor who's a little childish and slightly perverted when it counts. #3 Fangirlism, games/anime/movies/cheesy bands/etc. - while not technically a needed trait its heavily sought after by me and I'm willing to put it above responsible driving and financial independence...lol #4 Social compatibility - next to last on my list but still needed, I want someone who's basically my best friend, who's fine with me going out with the guys or pulling up a chair and hanging out with me and my family to. #5 Looks/Style - the least needed for me if a girl fits well into the other categories. Long beautiful hair or soft smooth skin are a plus. But if someone hits the other 4 well enough this isn't nearly as needed.
momohinamori1221
1- I want them to like me for who I am, on my bad and good days. This kinda includes the way I look. 2- Has a great personality. 3- Has a sense of humor. 4- Isn't clingy but i can still cuddle with them! 5- Can get a long with my friends. :) my friends are like my second family.
kittie_saya
1- Has a great personality- smart,funny, charming,nerdy, and romantic 2- Great sense of humor and can take my sarcastic remarks when I dish them out 3. Loves me for who I am and doesn't try to change me 4- Someone who shares similar intrests as me 5-Last but not least someone who can treat me like a princess, and gets along with friends and family :D
ridingcatbus
1-You like to talk.<br> 2-You can talk about how you feel. I am not a mind reader. Don't make me guess.<br> 3-You can take me the way I am. Not as some remake project.<br> 4-You have a sense of humor.<br> 5-You will let me love you.<br>
bleeding_perfection
Hmm... 1- Likes to spend time with me, doing things that I like sometimes, like slaying zombies or shooting pirates, but also has fun things that she likes to do. I'd be willing to do pretty much anything with a girl. 2- I'm real big into commitment and making relationships last. She should be willing to work out differences, instead of just break up like so many other couples. 3- Tsundere can be fun. Likes sex, but doesn't need it. It's not my main focus, so it shouldn't be hers, either. But I do have my kinks, and I like to do weird things on occasion, so she should be open-minded. 4- Easy to get along with. Awkward silences are no fun, so we should be able to hold a meaningful conversation. Then again, there are times when silence can be romantic. I'm a bit of a romantic. 5- Will be persistent enough to get me out of the house, maybe for exercise, maybe to look for work, maybe even to make me go shopping with her. I'm fine with that. I need reasons to get out more, anyway.
wiglaf
1 - Kindness 2 - Intelligence 3 - Sense of humor 4 - Understanding 5 - Loyalty
faerval
This is a good question ^^ 1. Personality. this seems to be a big one here, i want a person who actually shows emotion! someone who can laugh at herself and be happy, a nice girl who isnt afraid to act on her own! 2. Humor! guess this plays into Personalty... but its still needed in a relationship. people should be able to cut back and enjoy life once in a while, being serious all the time isn't good for anyone or anything :/ 3. shared interests. In any somewhat successful relationships I've been in they all involved me and my, at the time, significant other being somewhat compatible, having common interests in something is a great bonding experience, and does wonders for a relationship ^^ 4. not afraid of affection/contact. I know its not just me, but i'm a huggy guy. i just like holding onto my girl, not in a creepy, clingy "i will never leave you" way, but a "i love you and want to be with you" way. its just what i need in a relationship. physical contact is such a bonus with relationships and should be done to strengthen the bonds between them ^^ 5. Loyalty I've been in relationships when the other wasn't faithful. the pain still haunts me to this day, i hope to never endure it again :/
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