Do women need to be broken before they understand?

@Arc I think you miss understand what I was trying to say, by no means is it wrong to try to help a woman being abused, but helping someone just because you think its right thing to do can cause more harm than good. In situations when such ass holes try to abuse/control people/women mentally, leaving scars on mind not just the body, without that person/woman willing to except the problem and move past it, just simply helping once is not going to make their life any better. When helping someone deal with abuse they need to be ready to move on, and you need to be ready to commit to helping do this. A man who gives a women false hope is worse in from my experience than someone who is a abuser. And last checked quite a lot of men have history of having trouble committing the most basic of things I'm not saying you are but some men are, and this is something as men we must factor in, before hand in other words am I ready to support that person and any drama that may come with it until they feel they have moved on. And If they don't move on, and I walk away how much worse have I made their situation or my own. "Look before you leap." Think of the consequences of your actions before you act.

@Neko Are you kidding? I wouldn't make the girl feel bad for sleeping around....if anything I would envy her,and probably be a little worried that she's judging me. I wish i had the chance to explore myself like that.

^you know there's an app for that. I don't actually use it for that, but I use a hookup app to meet dudes and be a weirdo. Lol if you wish you could sleep with random girls just download Tinder and it will open you up to a whole new world. I think assuming anything about the opposite sex is usually wrong especially when it comes to the mind and feelings. People are very complex individual beings and it's important to respect that.

Well not so much sleep with random girls..maybe establish a few sexfriends with similar interests and whatnot. Also can you recommend a different one? I don't use phone apps much.

Meh... To each their own. When all else fails, craigslist.

I know a lot of women who are in an unhealthy relationships.No matter how emotionally or physical abusive their partners are to them, they still stay in that kind of relationship or even after moving on from that kind of relationship,they ended being in the same situation with their next partner...and their next partner...and their next partner... *facepalm* By this time, they are already broken inside (they tend to be clingy,emotional baggage,being hit by a mental disorder, too idealistic etc.) but do they mature enough to get themselves out of the cycle? Most of the times no. It has been a norm nowadays to be with crappy guys. Girls are attracted to them because in the initial pace, these kind of guys know how to wrap these weak hearted/girlish minded girls around their fingers(i.e giving her the attention she wants,sweet words and promises) And these kind of girls would believe naively even though it is proven and seen by many friends of hers that she will just end up in another emotional disaster -___- But I guess girls will keep doing that until finally a meteor will hit their head. Sadly even though they meet a nice guy, they may just end up losing the nice guy because of who they are atm. And if you stick long enough with these kind of girls, you too will be dragged in an abysmal amount of insanity. The baggages she will bring home with you in the long run would be massive-- her bad childhood memories, the abusive exes, the tortured heart she still has and many more. Rare are the girls who can actually grow up and have the strength to fight this inner storms in their lives without the help of others or sometimes having an open mind to be helped by others. Girls who really are diligent enough to move forward without the unnecessary dramatic exit. It just really boils down, how their psyche can evade the demons inside of them that even after getting broken, they will be able to stand up and live their lives ~ Although for males it is alluring to comfort and be the knight and shining armor of these girls, just be cautious enough not to be dragged in the long run *scoffs* Anyway I therefore insert @Hanzo Kai's recent message on the thread. He said it right. *gives cookie*