Advice on my crush needed. Please read all the way to the end.

I've asked for some advice in the past about messaging a girl on MO whom I have a crush on and asked if asking to be friends on Facebook is okay. And here I am again. Now this post might seem pathetic to some people but to be honest, I really don't care! Anyway, in my last post asking for advice I asked if it was okay to ask my crush if I could add her on Facebook. After reading people's comments and advice on said post I went and messaged my crush asking if we could be friends on Facebook. Eventually, I got a message from her saying that she was okay with it and asked for my Facebook so she could add me. Now, here's where I went wrong. Instead of giving her my Facebook address I told her my full name and what my profile picture was so she'd know it's me. Eventually I realized it'd be best if I gave her my Facebook address. For a while I didn't hear from her. Eventually I logged on to MO and noticed she'd been online herself. But I hadn't heard anything from her and didn't receive an friend requests from anyone who seemed like her (I'd had friend requests from people I met at a con I went to a few months ago, though). Anyway, I assumed that she hadn't seen my last messages so I tried again sending her my Facebook address. Some weeks later I commented on her profile about an anime I'd watched that she likes. Now fast forward to early this month, I got a response from her to my post on her profile but no response to my messages and no friend request on Facebook. Should I assume she hadn't seen my messages or that she's not interested? Should I be patient and wait more? Or should I give her my Facebook address on her profile where she's sure to see it? My crush only really logs in once a month usually and even then not always. Also, my broadband has dating sites blocked until 9:00PM so I usually have to wait until then to log in. Anyway, I'm really sorry to bother people with this. It's just I really do like this girl and I want to talk to her outside of MO, as I've said, Facebook which I can use freely and use all the time, and maybe arrange to meet up. And I'm feeling rather disheartened right now. Thanks for your time in reading this rather long post. And again, advice would really be appreciated.

if you guys aren't regularly talking she's probably not romantically interested. maybe she's gonna see this tho isn't that an exciting thought

Well she's more or less already given you the okay to add her on facebook. I'd say send her a message and friend request her on there yourself. (unless she has that stuff blocked for whatever reason)

Not gonna lie to you Steve, she doesn't sound all that interested. If she were, apart from very extenuating time constraints, she'd probably log on more than once a month if she felt that there was something significant to be gained. A nice rule when it comes to girls is that if they don't respond to something you wanted confirmation on, you give it some time and just kinda ask it again, just so they have the benefit of the doubt. After all, people are busy with their lives, or sometimes they may not have remembered that part. That being said, by sending her your FB profile link and her still not responding, that's probably an indicator that you shouldn't expect anything more. Of course, that's just my own way of looking at it, but it does allow you to check once more time while still respecting her space. - tl;dr you tried it again and it didn't work out, I wouldn't expect any positive result from trying an additional time

I honestly think you answerd your own question steve to be blunt they really dont seem like they are interested you should get it over with an be direct so you get the upfront answer instead of waiting there saves time because all that sounds like such a hassle i'd personally be so lazy.. Once a month they get on is it really worth it? I dun think so

Agreed; you sent her the information twice, and on top of that she's responded to your other messages, therefore she's seen the links you sent before. If she hasn't added you I'm afraid it's likely she doesn't want to, and only agreed to be polite. She also doesn't log in much, and the people above are right; she'd log in more if she was interested.

First of all, your Christmas sweater is amazing. Next, you must realize about 85% of women are demons. We are simply wicked creatures. Women think they are trying to be nice by being polite and giving out our number, email, kakao, FB, whatever, even if we have no intention of talking to this guy. The woman might just be too afraid to say no. But what's really happening is she is leading the poor dude on. Ladies need to start communicating better- what you want and don't want. It seems she was just trying to be nice. Me personally, if I really wanted a guy, I would make sure that sucker was mine and talk to him often. Not leave him hanging for weeks. I think it might be in your best interest to find someone that will jump for joy to be with you. At least that's what I would want. Best of luck to you brother. P.s. I hope I didn't offend the ladies.

I hate sounding like a parrot and just repeating things but it's just like everyone above me said. Crushes are usually one sided. If it's off the internet, then you shouldn't take this crush too seriously. I mean I get it, find female anime fans in real life seem rare and impossible to find (except at cons) but online, here they are. "I finally found one! This is the one for me!" you get excited but you gotta remember, this is a dating website and not a super active one at that. Not everyone spend a lot of time online on dating sites. It's usually on Facebook, Youtube, Instagram, Snapchat, and other social media. Even with those, it's usually with people they know in real life. There's plenty of women here that I've spoken to and some never respond, only respond once or are hardly ever on. Which means they either don't use this site much and won't talk to people on here much, are busy with life or just aren't interested. It's not just you man. There's plenty of us here that had an interest. That's the nature of people, you can't force people to like or be around you. Even though at times it can feel like no woman does lol. Story of my life haha.