(Reverse)Harems, yay or nay

Not my preferred arrangement but technically I am part of 2 reverse harems. I guess somewhere along the way monogamy became old fashioned. (shrug) Que Sera Sera.

I would not consider myself poly as I prefer monogamy but the dating/social climate in my area is very progressive. The 2 girls I see now are in relationships with 3-5 others but are bisexual so most of them are other girls(mostly lesbians) sans me and another guy. I sometimes go out clubbing with them all as a group for fun but actual dates it is just me and one of the 2 girls in one on one settings usually. I am not bisexual but have been in a couple 3 ways with the 2 girls and the guy once when she wanted DP but it was all about her in that session. I think they are trying to corrupt me lol.

LOL i hear ya on that. Yeah actually in a mmf triad now dude is hella chill and we get along well. We usually end up on a 3 way about once a month. Not sure how it go there but hey it works for us. I term myself poly as i actually do enjoy the relationships as they are. Recently on the encouragement of my partner and her meta i've started to branch out for a relationship of mine, i gues were turning in to a polycule. What i do like about this the most is how open and communicative these relationships can be. No drama or fuzz