(Reverse)Harems, yay or nay

So I had a conversation with a friend last night, he likes the idea of harems (watching Freezing) but not polyamory (similar IRL). So whats the deal here, I you had the chance to be in a love but part of harem would you take it? Me, I am in one.

No. However, I don't mind people who are in poly relationships. If everyone is happy idgaf.

lmao like one dude gets to fuck like 5 girls but they can only fuck him nah get the fuck out of here

Wait, one dude gets to fuck like 5 girls but they can only fuck him? Isn't that just a regular harem?

xynox you are correct, its either 5 gals on 1 guy or 5 guys to 1 gal. MainichiMaidCafe, how about you both get another partner? so like you get 2 and your SO gets 2 as well? I'm curios to know how you guys feel about it.

...nope ^u^ I think a relationship of any kind of love relation shouldn't be something you need others for~ so as for a harem, I don't like them because it promotes somewhat unfaithfulness. Unless it's just a case of where one guy does actually love just one girl; and he's just being followed for reasons he doesn't know. But being blatantly apart of it..? I can't condone it ;u; As far as poly... I mean.. If you love everyone and everyone loves everyone else who am I to say it's wrong? o.o That's just me though ^u^ I've had an opportunity to have more than one girl at once, but I absolutely couldn't do that to them or myself. No one deserves to feel like they aren't enough for the one they love ^u^

Couldn't do it. I'm way to jealous and way to committed for the affection and giving of affection to one. I feel like these fantasies and real life situations are a bit self serving and show no restraint. But, what the he'll do I know?