MaiOtaku Appearance vs Reality

How did you guys feel about the site when you first got here? and what was your intention. For me, I thought it was primarily a dating site but then I found out that nobody on here wants a relationship except for guys and now it's just a "find friends to talk to site" Also were you guys disappointed with what you found?

The generalization of your statement of "...that nobody on here wants a relationship except for guys..." is false. Just because you can't find anyone, doesn't mean it's not happening. I found my girlfriend on here; going on 9 months on the 22nd... but hey, no girls are looking... Try being friends with a girl, build a foundation, then ask them out if you believe it might work. Don't just find some "cute girl" and ask her out knowing nothing about them...

oh thats not what I meant, it was a general statement. I dont flirt off the bat and friendship is always an important prerequisite for me. Judging from a few people Ive spoken to, the general consensus is that relationships aren't a main focus for a vast majority.

Most on here seem to have given up on finding a relationship thru this sight. Tbh I see why, most everyone who is interesting lives extreme distances away lol

i thought this site was gonna be something to pass the time until i became bored and decided to leave cause i get bored with things easily. but i have been here a year now and its been a pretty wild ride met a bunch of people, flirted with a bunch of people, dated a bunch of people. currently with my new gf who is legit like my dream girl....and also a closet pervert XD got a bunch of cool things from this site, i wasnt disappointed actually

Im really happy to hear that Seabears c: I wish you two the best and I hope my turn comes along soon haha. But yeah I really enjoy the new friends I made here. Mostly everyone is nice and welcoming and supportive.

dont worry man stick around long enough and im sure it will happen lol trust me....i've seen this site work for tons of people

I thought it was a makeshift dating site for anime/manga fans, still think it is but with less dating. I overall think the site is a fun place. And I wouldn't count on finding someone on here but anything could happen I suppose. This all depends on your personality though and connection with the community and how much you are willing to invest.. I'm generally not good at communicating with people online or off so take my comments with a grain of salt.