The "friendship" talk

I only have about 3 friends irl. Sometimes I'll go a month without so much as talking to a friend. We have no drama. 2 of my friends are loners like me, so we don't hang out often. The other friend doesn't hang out with me often because he has a lot of friends at work. My friends are the "Man, let's do stuff together" type. Not the "Hey, let's talk about our problems" type.

When I was little we moved a lot and I had to make and lose friends often. I moved back to my home area late in HS and had to start over again. Since then I have made some long term friends but even they grow apart due to life and we sometimes flowed back together. People will come and go throughout your life so try to never burn bridges unless you have to. The job I have now is partly due to someone I knew in HS a little then worked with briefly later and one day ran into at the store and he gave me a referral to work with him again. We still never hang out very often as he opened a brewery elsewhere and BS on social media. You will have many circles of friends of varying closeness and trust it is natural.