Attraction

I don't know about you guys, but for me I tend to attract the worse kind of people. To list my problems the guys I attract have been - Guys who like to tease and pick on me and then ask me out after I start crying - Guys who tried something I made and keep bugging me to go with them so I will make them food and such - Guys who I have gotten into fights with and they ask me out during or after we fight and I normally have kicked their butts (70% fist fights) - Guys who for some odd reason like me, not sure why and follow me around, go though my trash and do anything to get me to date them despite me not know their names and they getting all the information wrong about me - The horny guy, I get this one a lot. They will lift up my skirt to peek at my panties (I don't wear dresses or skirts much due to that now), they will ask for sexual favors despite not being something I would do, more so when we are not even close. I tend not to remember even their names - The guy who tries to trick me into dating him. This type of guy tries to get me to agree to date them though a contest of some kind without explaining what I am betting. Always cheats to win and tends to have a huge ego -friend's ex. The people you know all about how horrible they are, yes they ask me out, often. Normally within 2 days of their break up. This also includes my friends stalkers. Now can anyone tell me why they think so many types of horrible ask me out and why no decent?

First I'd look at the type of people you hang around, then ask why. From your description most of them are very immature (first thought was why are you hanging around 10 - 13yo boys). The stalker going through your trash needs be made aware that you're not interested, with a restraining order if needed.

Yep, definitely the "friend" group that you stick around in and the people related to the clique. People often..time and time again forget about this, and they're afraid to remove themselves from unnecessary influences because they're too "comfortable". ~T

My friends are rarely around me. They are all busy with work. And I don't hang out with 10 to 13 year olds. And mind you most of these guys are older than me who have done this. When I turned 20 I had to deal with the tries to win me stalker type for able 6 years. Even bought mace and moved in with someone who scared him.

bossy people is my problem, I don't know why people think that they can order me around, I mean it's okay to ask for a favor,but like they try to order me to do things for no reason,it all started with my sister

I have that problem with people who are not trying to be love interests. Do the opposite and they will give up it works for me. Or yell, "I don't take orders only requests"

"And I don't hang out with 10 to 13 year olds. And mind you most of these guys are older than me who have done this." I should have been more clear stating that as you described behavior more likely to be from adolescent and pre-adolescent children, that they may be much older came to mind as well which you clarified. This only reinforces the fact that these guys are very immature. You said that you're not around your friends much because of work obligations. What you did not say is if any of the people you described are your friends or not. If not, great. If they are then it's past time to reevaluate your friendships. What's also missing from your OP is where these guys find you. Does this happen at school, work or other public place? Many of them would have to be at places you frequent and possibly interact with even casually to a degree of being comfortable with behaving as they do toward you, from annoying to reprehensible.

I will admit I have a friend or two who is unsavory. But on the whole the people I tend to flock to are normally kind, and upstanding citizens. All be it a bit weird. As for where I meet such people I met them at a whole range of places. I met them at school, work, while shopping, hanging out with friends, going to the movies, Or anything that involves me interacting with others. It isn't a normal day unless some creep is hitting on me. Another grouping a get a lot, but I am sure everyone does is the perverted old man. They been hounding me since I was 14 to go to their houses so they can 'show me some cool stuff'. I normally tell them I am dating someone and grab the closest person my age to pretend. Most cases this was a friend. A couple times it was a stranger (which was fine since they were nice enough to pretend for me and had a lover already.), once it was my boss who was already protective of me due to being a boss. (protective of all females. odd part was it was the gay boss I had grabbed to pretend that) As for how I act I am pretty normal. weirdest thing I do is while shopping I talk to myself but that is pretty much "Where is ____?" or "For god sake what the hell did they want?" or "How am I ever suppose to find it." or just repeating the name of what I am looking for as I search.

maturity is subjective and is usually used as a moral highground to belittle others. "I'm more mature than you, so I'm smarted and my morals are better".

Those type of guys push themselves onto everyone, it's not just you. No one wants creeps like that so they target anyone and everyone they can. Personally I mainly just get really nasty types asking me out, most girls that come my way I have absolutely no interest in. Trashy bitchy slutty skanky you name it and I seem to draw them like a magnet. For that matter I'm only attracted to the girly/feminine types but I only ever seem to attract tomboys.