Guys hate when girls do or say...?

I don't think I dislike anything men or women themselves do individually. I dislike what millenials have decided as a large group is acceptable socially. The era of honesty and down to earth values has been getting traded over time for a much more casual and superficial existence under the flag that all people should be able to do what they want and not be judged for it. While this is true, a person should be able to live how they like. Many use this as an excuse to absolve responsibility and consequence from their actions. There was a time where people were largely hoping for a relationship with long standing trust and a rich history where they have stories to tell their grandchildren. For the previous generation (our parents largely) they did not get this experience, but out grandparents did. They were not expected to get married early, but many did, and they stuck with their partners through thick and thin to create a life that withstood the ages. My peers? Marriage? Nah. Long term relationships? Gross. Partying, living casually and loose? Sounds fantastic. Unfortunately this new push for people to live without inhibition has been brought about by a movement for social equality for those who are considered to be living on the fringe of society. So in short...I hate what society has done to men and women...and I feel sad that so many beautiful people were tarnished by the era they live in.

I completely agree Testarossa. Personally, I get really upset when anyone tells me "just be yourself". They act like it's this mystical solution to any personal problems you have. Either they don't understand or don't care because "just being yourself" is extremely unhelpful and being yourself is really hard when everything in your life is confusing and constantly in a state of change. There are very few things in this world that change doesn't touch. Sorry for the rant, but that phrase is false wisdom and it just angers me to see it handed out like candy.

Hirakuga ' Just be yourself ' Is not just a saying someone will tell you for relationships or girls or love.. Just be yourself you should always be and it also means to be honest and true with yourself. Never be fake or someone you aren't even if you don't like who you are, you are who you are.

I have to say when girls act like attention whores 'oh im so ugly' or when they show body parts online "maybe if i show some cleveage i will meet a nice guy" or when they rant or bitch about stuff that happens to them, When i see those types of posts on facebook i link them to a self help book o3o

I really don't like when girls lie about their age. Its stupid and dangerous. I'm sure that there are relationships between minors and adults that can end up working out ok. But I doubt that is the case if the adult has no idea what they are getting into. And it can't ever go well when the truth comes out. I wouldn't say that this is something that guys don't do. But in my limited experience it seems like women minors tend to raise their age to match to older men. Question to women: Do you think that there is enough of a difference between the maturity(seems to be the common reason) of men in your age group and that of older men? Not necessarily to empathize with but at least understand why. Seeing the general maturity of guys of different ages makes me think that the typical maturity reasoning is an excuse. Is it similar to the monkey liking the shiny object because its different? Thoughts?

I HATE WHEN GIRLS REJECT MY ADVANCES but i mean i gotta respect that i guess every day is suffering one time I told a barista that she was cute as she was handing me my coffee and she just kinda rolled her eyes and made a click noise and I got embarrassed so I tried to kinda hurry out the door but I slipped and spilled coffee all over me and then I got even more embarrassed and I haven't been to that coffee place ever since. fuck that girl.

Oh come on... Hating rejection? Talk to any barista, food service worker or bartender and you'll hear all kinds of stories of how they get hit on. First, be friendly and not bluntly direct, that's kind of creepy in general unless they have the same thought process (which they usually won't, no matter who you are.). People are people. I hate threads like these that encourage over generalizations. Women aren't aliens and neither are men. There are socially awkward people, liars, thieves, cheaters, self centered bitches and ass holes in both groups. It's not any more prevalent amongst any group, it's just socially more acceptable to bitch about the opposite sex while complaining about how you're not getting what you want with your approach. I'm a complete social retard, but I understand a few things that it would seem many here don't or at least don't want to admit. It's always easier to not admit fault and fix yourself. I know things because believe it or not, I'm human too.