Guys hate when girls do or say...?

^ really? I see an equal amount of guys who fish for compliments as there are girls. There's even a crap load all on this forum, all the time.

@xueli, I gotta agree. I think, as a girl who's dated a girl before, I'll simply say that she was very pushy and I didn't like it. She wasn't my type, and I won't go for her type again. I'm still friends with her, though, and I'm glad she's found someone else. I'll just swap the genders so I can post my input on what I don't like in a dude. I really don't like it when a guy I like is all flirty with me, because honestly, it's probably just infatuation and I don't want to get whisked away into a relationship. I want time to decide weather I actually like him or not, and so, when they get all fluffy and romantic, is pisses me off. No, stop pulling me up off my feet, I don't want this. And if I actually do stay on the defense for the right amount of time, I generally look past my immature infatuation and turn him down. It's because I see deeper, and I really analyze if we're compatible. If I feel it's off, and it usually has been off, I say no. Three times it's happened, and they went on to others girls in really messed up relationships so I'm glad I was cautious. One of them had a side chick, the other said he's commit suicide if his girl left him, the last was just mean to the girl. I knew each girl pretty well, too, and they seemed like nice people so I can't help but put the blame on the guys. But yeah, that's pretty much it.

Xueli^ I too seen many here in my very short time browsing. I kinda know why this site has a number of people who sign up one day and gone the next. @shaedust ahhh yes those were the times in my highschool. I personally would suggest anyone in highschool to not get worked up into a relationship mainly because it's usually just drama drama drama. Mostly won't last.

@rickowned, basically. I've decided, for the most part, I'm literally never going to date anyone. I'm pretty content not dating crazy people. I will be forever alone, and happy.

What i really dislike is when you say you like a girl and they say they like you back but dont want to go out they rather just mess around with other guys and have you on the side I also dont like when you ask them out but they blow you off for someone else then come running back because they realize you were the only person who didnt treat them like crap

@shaedust Never say never. You never know what might might happen. Might find someone that's genuinely good. I used to think like you do now. But I changed over time and now want to be in a relationship. So like I said, things might change. Only you'll know when you're ready though @neko Yeahhhhhhh happened to me far too much. orz

@neko This. I MUST PUSH FORWARD!

@Rickowned, yea maybe. But so long as being alone makes me happy, I'm totally fine with marrying myself and committing to no one. It's better safe than sorry, yo. I'm also probably aromantic, so idk how that would even work with other peoples in the first place. It's sort of NOT something that's going to happen, you know? Like, I've never felt attached to anyone and I'm pretty sure I'm complete in line with the whole aromantic view on things, so yeh.

@shaedust As long as you're happy, then that's all that matters.