Fat guys vs. Skinny Guys

lol you don't seem fat to me in your cosplay pictures but you may just hide your belly well. I'm fat, too so when it comes to guys and their weight, i wouldn't mind if they are fat or skinny. My boyfriend is concerned sometimes with him gaining weight and he wants to more toned but I let him know I love him however way he looks and whatever he chooses to do is what I think i best.

Meh. It's like anything. I guess most would prefer their man to be fit, but like us they come in different sizes and colors, meaning some will mind, some won't care, some will like skinny men, some more endowed ones.

Well I do put photos that don't show off my wight or belly or that I am fat. I would think girls would like a skinny or fit guy over a fat guy. Could a fat guy be fit?

Lol yeah I do the same thing. I think a guy can be fit and still be fat. I think he can have a belly and be husky while being able to outrun the average person. I am actually stronger than I look and can lift/carry heavy items, more than other people my weight. I can carry my own weight (I can carry 2XX lbs) but I don't have much endurance. What I need is endurance. When I go to the doctor's office, the doctor always tells me, "Your blood pressure, your cholesterol, and your breathing is fine. You are just overweight." The reason why it is dangerous to be overweight is because it can increase the risk of diabetes and other diseases and it puts a lot of pressure on your joints. For women, it can make giving birth harder and increase the risk of gestational diabetes. However, I don't know what percent of my body is muscle and which is fat. That is what sucks about BMI. Whenever you can, look into it for yourself on your own body. You could be in more in shape than you think.

Also, maybe girls would prefer a skinny or "fit" guy. But that make it easier for you to find someone who doesn't mind it. And kinda off topic but here is a cute comic about a big guy: http://jaymzeecat.deviantart.com/gallery/31463416/Split-Screen-Comic

For me being plus size or fat girl. I do kinda like guys being fit or skinny..Idk why I just find it attractive personally for me. But I'm fat so Its super stupid and ironic for me to only attracted to those type of guys..-Shrug- It's just how I am.. And being overweight is unhealthy it's fine when your like young but it gets worst when you get older and oyu get the health problems and stuff so yeah..Even for me I want to loose weight! But the thing about being fat is that you'll eventually find someone who will love you besides the fact your fat or not. She may end up being fat herself or skinny or whatever but you will find someone who will love you for who you are. It just takes time and finding the right person.. One thing I always tell myself is that there has to be some physical attraction and inner attraction for a relationship to work. You can't be with someone you don't find attractive physically cause then..you can't have sex or you'd be ashamed to kiss them in public or stuff like that. So that is why it's a little harder for us plus size people to find someone but you'd be surprised there are alot of people who are actually attracted to bigger people..And if you have a good heart then that will lead you to the right person. The thing that sucks is the wait. :'c But don't give up! You'll find someone! :D

Well, I'd have to disagree with Cat though. You don't have to be physically attracted to someone to date them. And you don't have to be initially attracted to them at first either. That can come later. Also, being physically attracted to someone can fluctuate. For example: You can be more attracted to someone depending on the day of the month or the time of the day. For example, a study was done on strippers being tipped by men. It was found that through a month, a stripper would get tipped more money (on average) while she was ovulating (fertile). In this test, it shows that men will find a certain woman more attractive (how much he tips her) depending on if she is ovulating (and the guys didn't know when that is, btw). Of course there were other variables but this is what was concluded.

Well maybe your right, I only go from with what I've experienced on my levels. But I do think you have a point, Attraction physically is different with every person. Some people cling to it more then others those people will be the shallow ones that will denie giving you a chance because your not ' Pretty enough or fat or w/e' Then there are people who look past the physical attraction and look deeper at the person for who they really are inside and can love them for that. I dare not say these people are rare...But in my experience they are for me at least. LOL. Well it all just depends on the person. That's a interesting study btw.

Yep it really all depends. @Tetra We are saying don't give up!