Personality or looks????

Or you could look at them both as in one and the same. Or allow me to phrase this a little differently. Generally, someone who believes they're good looking will probably be more inclined to be outgoing and positive, m'yes? While someone who thinks they're rather ugly will probably be less outgoing and positive, possibly very introverted. Your looks have a huge impact on your personality, and the first thing someone is ever going to look at when they see you is what you look like. It's different per person, and it's harder depending on how you are socially. If you looked at your weight, and considered yourself to be a beautiful person regardless, I'd say your chances with -ANYONE- walking this earth is pretty high. It's just as easy to attract with confidence and charisma as it is with an amazing figure.

Personality is by far the major factor (at least for me), though even I will admit (sadly) that looks do play a sizable part in my judging a person in regards as to whether or not I would like to date them. I really do try to go beyond looks, and have done well so far.

Yes i get bullied alot about my looks, I think personality is what matters most, I always judge the soul and not what appears on the outside <3

its suppriseing who gets bullied some are really pretty its a shame some twats decide to hurt people like that but it makes or breakes people just keep your chin up ^^

(' 3') Girls that Ive dated were really nice and i dint even think twice about appearances^^ i could careless about appearance, as long as they have a good attitude and are fun to be around. So don't let other people control your life^^

I'm pretty sure people will say personality over looks, I would but to tell you the truth I'm a bit hypocritical(Just a bit) I would love to find someone who's personality I can click with and not let their looks get the judgement of my decision on if I want to ask them out or not. One thing someone told me is that if you can't love yourself(In this case the way I look) you can't love anyone else. So to answer the question we all would love to find someone for their personality but deep down we'll try to find one for their looks also.

aww honey~ :( the first thing ppl rly look at is looks, bcuz that will determine whether they want to talk to you or not. it takes a while before they can trust you and friendship can lead to other things!~ i personally like cute guys :P

I just want to be 'cute' together! Watch anime, cosplay couple, video games together! Stuff like that. Golden dream~ Yahoo! As for looks . . . I honestly do have my preferences. If it's 'hot' or 'cute' then I'm more into cutesy girls. Too bad girls don't just fall from the sky like in anime. Actually... that'd be tragic. /gulp.

Looks are important, but don't misunderstand what is to look good. You do not need to be slim/voluptuous/tall/etc. to have good looks. Personally I think that looking good means to do the best with what we have, have a good hygiene, maybe do some make up (women), but just to improve your factions. If you really think you are a little over your weight it would be a good idea to do diet or something, but not because your looks, but because your health. My last girlfriend was kinda chubby, and I was attracted to her because of her good care of body and personality. We just broke because I went 1 year to a intership and we didn't see each other that much.