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likes and dislikes in guys....

imperialnutcase
what are your likes and dislikes in a guy? what do you look for in a guy....
missallyesterday
I like intelligence, and understanding. I dislike when guys go ahead and assume things and make a stupid judgement based on such assumptions. I also dislike when guys judge in general, also when they backpedal and start talking endlessly trying to pull an explanation out their ass after I call them out on their judgement or lack thereof. It's like, "You made a stupid mistake, I took note of it, please PLEASE just shut up..." These are basically things I dislike in all cases with people in general really, so I also dislike this in guys especially if I'm dating them.
imperialnutcase
devils advocate in that... doesn't that make you judgmental?
jikokun
It's not judging if she is experiencing it. Then it's knowledge.
imperialnutcase
yes true. but everyone is judgmental to some degree.
jikokun
Yes, to a point. When she says (correct me if in wrong, missall) judge, I believe she is referring to how alot of guys will look at, for example, an Asian girl, and start drooling, completely blowing off somebody who is not. same goes for weight, color, etc. People who judge others based on looks alone, not actually getting to know the person is the short version.
metaljester
I would agree with jiko on this. On the matter of judging.
imperialnutcase
ah but it could be your just not attracted to them. everyone has a type. they judge based on their type.
jikokun
Accurate for the most part, yes, but I know a few people like this who would just hook up with girl they werent interested in, get what they wanted, usually sex or whatnot, then leave once "something better" comes along. They never really gave them a chance, just wanted to get their dick wet.
imperialnutcase
that could be the best example of a non judgmental person.... sad to say....
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