got punched in face

Fighting has nothing to do with being a man and it's sad that you think that by being "male" you have to prove yourself by fighting... Don't listen to this guy. I'm sorry but fighting someone for the sake of fighting just to prove a point is incredibly naive and immature. I'm all for self defense and think in the original encounter if he tried to actually fight instead of just punching you that defending yourself would have been fine, but at this point if the guy tries to confront you just walk away.

Toe, you completely misunderstood my comment. In no way I was suggesting he go out and look for a fight to "prove yourself". I'm saying that when the fight comes to you, don't just sit there and take it. It's nothing about proving a point, but standing up for yourself. If somebody punches you in the face, you fight back. That is all their is to it.

My advice is pretty much the same. You have already let it slide once. Read his intentions I know its not easy but I think its best way. If after awhile could be days could be weeks him messing with you.(depends on what you can tolerate) If he doesn't seem like he is going to stop harassing you...release your frustration,let him have it ^-^ Usually after a few times of shrugging it off the bully loses interest in me. It almost never gets physical. I'm 24 and I can still count the fights I've gotten into in my entire life without using my toes ;) My only advice as I leave this thread is be smart about it...he may start it but when you swing you will get in trouble too.