:3 Maybe i can help you with your relationship probs?

Necro... I am unfamiliar with this term I have barely been here a month or two. I honestly did not notice it was 5 years old, I just saw, hm... Single post, must be new! So a guy can't cook or be organized / clean or take care of his lady considering she may be tired, if he does he is more wife than husband material... Prof. Farnsworth has something to say about that. Thanks for the comments and support. Haha, I wonder why the almost, kitty? :P Daggera, I hope such a person exists someone in this dimension lol. One who will actually like all of me :D Gamer! Ganbare yo!

@Gamer: Don't give up. I understand the emptiness I do, and the feeling of losing apart of who you are, nothing helps keeps you mind off of it, and always questioning yourself. I had a similar experience which is why I joined this site, and talking to people helps, but at night it still the worse. I don't think bad of you I really was trying to give advice based on the little Information you have given, I am sorry if I misunderstood. I am sure you treated her well, but it wasn't meant to be... I am truly sorry about your friends, if they don't talk to you anymore perhaps you can make new ones. I would be happy to be one if you need someone to talk to, but don't let the loneness consume you.

@izumi, actually I do think guys can cook is awesome since I would like to cook but thinking about being alone eating my own cooking has no meaningful. Cooking should be appreciate and make for someone that you care for. I'm not good at cooking but I did try to make food for my first ex since I didn't had any money at that time so ordering food is out of my budget. I did pretty good job making one of her favorite even though I suck at cooking. I only eat take out order since just working and rather be lazy since cooking has no meaningful to me. It much easier just buy take out order. I might try to get back to cooking but not sure when maybe the day I retire or so. But thanks for your cheering. @Daggera, you don't need to be sorry it just my fault for believing love. I can hardly cry after the first break up. I still don't know why I care about her too much. Being pathetic that I know since last year I put a gift in her door without saying anything. I know I'm a chicken since I never really say a proper farewell to her. To be honest, her parent like me since they know I'm good to her. However, she told me she lost love in me and I left without hearing the rest. I'm not sure should I even give her a present this year since her birthday in December. I still remember it and I never miss her present. I know it's over I shouldn't give her anything. This year I probably be breaking her promise that I made in the past. I promised her every year will send her a gift even if I don't have time for her. I think I'm not my old self where I get to do as I please and help other when they need it. Now I feel every homeless in the street nothing but a fraud. I didn't blink an eye when they beg me for money. Losing part of myself feeling terrify that I could be real mean. I hate being melodrama and hate seeing couples flirt and talk bad about me. Today I just got talked bad by this couple in a fastfood restaurant where they didn't buy anything and I bought something for my mom and myself to eat then helping her carry her shopping trophy. The couples say it in English they thought I don't know English since I was with my mom who don't speak English. They mock me saying I'm a loner that need a mom to shop with. The guy say I probably never dated a girl and they laugh and kiss in front of me. I ignored them and watch my anime in my tablet. Sometimes people pissed me off and I didn't even do a thing.

Okay I'll be serious for this one as there actually is something I guess I could use some help with. It might not even be so much for romantic pursuits as maybe more curiosity and possibly finding some new friends, but would anyone happen to know of any sites where real otaku hang out? That includes hikamori and NEETs too of course. I know a few but they're kinda sausage fests, just sayin.

@Neet-one Where the truly obsessed hang out? Not online on communal forrums, I can assure you. That's like asking where alcoholics hang out. More than likely at home, alone and surrounded by thier pacifying consumption. An obsession of any sort is highly unhealthy, it tends to become by definition,who yout are. As cliché as it is, all things in moderation.

@izumi cause I'd feel bad if I couldn't cook but my husband could XD Though in all seriousness, love takes time to build and it may take sometime to find but I think everyone has someone who would be perfect out there for them

@neet note that I say this with extreme caution -- try an anime club. Like if you're not longer at the point where you're a closet weeb or you just don't give a fuck, join a club. Usually universities have them, and luckily for me there's a lot of normies and closetweebs, so I can go ahead and be a huge otaku while I'm there and then live the rest of my life as if I'm not ashamed. It really does depend though, it's fortunate that the one I go to has a decent 75-100 person consistent attendance, and they actually do cool activities and go out to eat together. There's a decent guy:girl population, and most aren't the type to call things "kawaii~~~" unless ironically. EDIT: Sorry, that totally went off on a tangent. Find a club, if you can find a cool one it'll be real solid. The age range is pretty wide, so it's not like you'd be hanging out with a bunch of 18 year olds, necessarily. Even if you don't join, it's worth checking out.