How do I get one

So we are at a general consensus that everyone leads on at least one person, yes? Even if they aren't meaning to, someone could be taking it that way? I hope so... Because the rest of it? I doubt we will ever agree fully on haha

Leading people onI believe happens when people try to put more than one relationship on their plate at once. You need to give things closure and have some control about not dating too many people at once. If you date more than one person and escalate the relationship you place every one in a grey area.

If you date someone and it doesn't work is not leading someone on because it takes time to figure out if you're a good match. Maturity plays a huge role.

Jean is correct but yes AMdarely. You are right. Dating someone to use them... money, sex, etc for any single reason and breaking up is leading them on. Having multiple people you are interested in and letting them know and also giving them hope is also leading them on. Datinf multiple people just means you're an asshole.

Sounds like you're mixing gold digging with leading people on. Sorry for joining the conversation thought I share my thoughts.

Gold digging "IS" leading people on. It's giving the other person hope. All the work they are putting in just to be thrown away? Is that not? Lol. Hence the phrase "leading people on".

Don't apologize for stating your opinion. It's your opinion and everyone is entitled to one. And just because there is some sort of debate against opinions, doesn't mean that you should take things the wrong way if someone tries to poke holes in yours

I am not offended or anything just being polite. I was just saying that leading people on is not as severe as gold digging where you intentionally are in the business of using someone for what they got.

In some cases people who are in denial over being rejected will cry out being let on. Is not always the case. Is a matter of perspective.

Leading people on is just as severe as gold digging, it's essentially the same thing. When your intention is to use someone for anything specifically while giving them hope that they are going to be in a relationship or ARE in a relationship, that's leading on. The intent to give them hope for your own interests.