How do I get one

Snide comments aside, try and message a few girls on here if you're specfically looking on this site. See if there are any anime clubs/organizations in your area/school and go to conventions when you can. The best thing you can do is just get out and try to be more social when time allows.

Dont be AWKWARD ;D Protip: Think of them as another male friend, and talk to them like you would talk to any other one of your buds. Becomes easy after that.

Its hard to give advise to someone over the internet, more success if we were there with him. But eitherway be social, cosplay at cons, don't be afraid to fail because I am not going to lie. You will fail alot when trying to go out on a date or talk to a girl. Its a uphill battle but eventually you get through it and then its easier as it goes. Also make yourself presentable within reason of course, women don't like guys without a job or lazy at things, or no passion for things. Having a job helps, having your own vehicle helps alot, and having your own place is very good. Show you can take care of yourself.

The way to win online is to not be so pushy. Girls are constantly getting glomped on via messages and comments. Drop a line or two, stay calm and don't be like the rest of the guys. Everyone talks about the same stuff, Cosplay, Anime, etc. While we all have the same interests... think about how a girl would feel if she has like 10 guys talking to her about the same god damn thing lol O_O. I see soo many people here try so hard that it just pushes the people they're talking to away. It hurts my feelings because I would love to help but they are so god damn desperate, i'd rather just see them fail lol.

Haha Tornado you're such a butt lmao. But thats true :P

Haha, what can i say? :P Just me posting that information should be enough, but hardly anyone will read it or take the advice :P

Tornado you do have a good point. Don't spam her profile a bunch of times, don't come off as desperate to date her, just figure things out and take it slow.

Ha ha, sounds like our new friend has a similar problem I do in real life choosing words. I tend to fail at explaining things in real life too. So I end up pissing people off and sounding condescending. Is kind of part of being impatient, a thought of expecting people to be on the same page when in reality they couldn't be because of lack of clarity. Is all good though.

Meeeeh, I used to have issues talking to people in general but I started telling people i met that i wasn't that great at conversing or holding a conversation. It's a double bladed idea but it lets the person know that you're not too boss mode with socializing as you should be. Letting them know can either break it or make it happen. Thus, double bladed side lol. They are usually a lot more forgiving if stated though.