Code K

I'd like to suggest a few things since threads like these are generally not good for your mental well being. They are great for a short time to vent, but everyone goes through this. Be positive. It seems a lot of people have the mentality that nobody will love them. Time is a word many don't want to hear, but it's truth. I know in today's society everyone wants something NOW, but it doesn't happen like that a lot of the time. Pick up a new hobby. Whether its acting, cooking, a musical instrument, whatever. It'll be a fun learning experience and who knows, you might meet someone. Talk to people in your classes if you're in college. Don't just brood to yourself. You might find some new friends. Friends are just as good because who knows, they might have a single friend once you get to know them. Just some food for thought.

There are all types of people out there so it is hard to generalize. You can't generalize in the world at all, but there are a few things you can take in to consideration. From my experience through friends and the like, I've found that many who have the same interest such as in anime/manga/comics/video games, etc are rather introverted. This is not just a phase for a few, but mostly due to inexperience in social interaction. Yes, it is hard to make new friends and introduce yourself. Can you do it? Yes. Many people feel a sense of security behind the internet or phone. Whatever device you choose, there is no replacement for a face to face talk or actually meeting the person. Technology only goes so far. We are social creatures and need that interaction in order to really get a grasp of what someone might be like. Actions speak louder than words. Mind you, this is all just my opinion, nothing more. As for your issue, there is no couple out there that doesn't go through the 'puppy love' phase of a potential relationship. This phase can last anywhere from a few days to maybe even years in some cases that I've seen. 'Puppy love' is the whole "I like this person and don't understand them fully yet" mentality. Time can change this to "I actually love this person" or "This person isn't the one I'm interested in". Variety is the spice of life and is one of the best ways to keep a relationship. Excuse my wall of text.