I get what you'r saying. I'm like you in so many levels, but not completely, of course. I don't see a problem how you spend your money, it's yours, right? I only wish I had the pleasure of spending mine the way I want. On top of which, I'm not good at the whole relationship thing, as well. The best thing I can tell you is that patience may be your best bet (and a little bit of attraction). You may not find someone perfect, but to humans, it IS someone.
Oh, and also, nice career path. I thought that would be my choice, but somehow I wondered onto the path of I.T. How the hell did that happen?
Chibi = funsize I never new it was a bad thing. I'm used to guys loving that kind of girl. The more feminine and small you are the more masculine they feel/look standing next to you. So unless you are overdoing something I don't understand why could be having issues. Or maybe there is just something wrong with the guys in your area.
As said before, attractiveness is different for each person. However, those other things aren't even a problem at all. In fact I'd say guys that are a bit anti-social would get more attention simply for the fact that when they are social it means so much more.
I get what you'r saying. I'm like you in so many levels, but not completely, of course. I don't see a problem how you spend your money, it's yours, right? I only wish I had the pleasure of spending mine the way I want. On top of which, I'm not good at the whole relationship thing, as well. The best thing I can tell you is that patience may be your best bet (and a little bit of attraction). You may not find someone perfect, but to humans, it IS someone.
Oh, and also, nice career path. I thought that would be my choice, but somehow I wondered onto the path of I.T. How the hell did that happen?