wugi

Okay so really your ask one questions here: how do i approach women that im interested in right? that i do not know. bc if your already friends with a girl or know her... and your interested in her, your questions should instead be, "how do i get out of the friend zone?" right? also the friend thing with women. Though that is important, that should not be something that bothers you to ask. For me, unless a girl outright confesses to me or something equally intimate, i dont think her as into me. Doesn't matter if shes a friend or what not. If your just "kirito" like you described, and girls that are your friends like you, and your not actively leading them on and they understand your boundaries... idk why that's something thats really your problem. If another girl likes you and you dont share the feelings back, and yall are friends. you can drop hints but for the most part don't worry about it. If they stop talking to you after awhile bc your convo run dry, thats normal. If they stop talking to you bc they had hidden interests for you that you didnt express back, thats also really normal and not really your problem. Trying to worry about things you can't control will just make your life harder. im also going to assume that when you say you like a girl, you want to pursue a relationship with her. Also you really asked two things, how to I approach strangers and how to I pursue a relationship with a girl you like. First to approach strangers, its pretty hard if your not socially comfortable being in uncomfortable situations. that sounds painful bc it is. Basically you have to approach stranger and talk to them alot. Being around stranger makes you uncomfortable, but if you do it alot then you will be more comfortable putting yourself in naturally uncomfortable situations. 2nd, talking to the girl you like. you want this girl to be comfortable with you. you want to appear fun and interesting to be around. Honestly laughter is one of the simplest ways to get people to like you. make her laugh and set up a good impression on her. Laughing is chemically proven to make us feel more enjoyable around someone else. Also i dont want to dive too much into this, just add me if you want to talk further