NerdySakura

Hehe X3 I think it's quite funny when people with our types of interests come off as rebels, I mean stereotypically we're often seen as goody two shoe nerds always trying to be the smart kid in class but often come off as socially awkward but then you realise that stereotypes are false and even people with the most nerdiest of interests can come off rebellious or the most social person ever and some lucky really lucky people just have it good in everything in general o.o It makes you think doesn't it? XD And yeah definitely about the marriage thing, no point dedicating your life to it - it should really just happen on its own when the time comes really. That way you're focused on other things and you have yourself someone with you along the way :3 That's my attitude to the situation o/ It's just people who can't figure out how to sort their priorities and they make silly mistakes along the way and it just becomes a mess for them. Yeah o/ I mean it's much, much easier and better for someone to help other people if they've been in similar situations themselves - you know use your own experiences to help other people. I mean I've been in a lot of dark places, like REALLY dark places but I'm making it there slowly - slowly but surely, you have to stomach it and keep pressing but a good bit of friendly advice doesn't hurt o/ And that is an adorable comic Sakura X3 I mean I can absolutely relate to that o/ Oh hey Sakura, do you have a Steam account by any chance? o.o

@anime and sakura ... so both of you are readers ... what are your genres? (its on a wall so I am hoping along on this convo :P)

Yeah o/ Y'know people have different dreams, some dream big and others just want the quiet life :3 Everyone has a choice in the end and yeah dreaming big is pretty difficult and can lead to a lot of stress but I think it's just much more satisfying and gratifying in the end :3 And yeah I hate it when people have that sort of dominating attitude, I mean really if that's not your idea of happiness then it's up the everyone else to accept that. Because trying to change someone's opinion on something they feel so strongly for will only cause arguments and stress amongst both sides - it's a pointless and futile thing to do really and it's easily solved just by accepting what they want to do y'know? Being unmarried without kids and what-not, I mean with the sounds of it, it seems to me you're under a lot of pressure from people to do things how they want you to do it and to be honest, that's probably one of the worst feelings ever. It's like when I was at school and I was pretty much Mr Unsuccessful at everything (school work, friends, girlfriends, etc - my childhood in general just wasn't very good ^^") and seeing people do well in all areas, it just felt like I was expected to be as good and when things just wouldn't click, it really upset me :I Of course towards the end, things did fall into place but really it was too little, too late for me. So I just decided to pursue my own things and forget about all of that and I reckon I've been much better off for it o/ It's kinda like the lonely hearts complex isn't it? When people can't find love accept here it's when people can't find a purpose and that's NOT a good feeling to have. When people have no idea what to do or how to achieve that, it really brings them down and I honestly feel sorry for them. At that point I show them a plethora of different things to try out, get them motivated and see what sticks for them. I've helped out a couple of people but y'know I'm not a life counselor XD With people like you and me it's a matter of following it through to the end and just hoping and praying to whatever deity you worship that everything goes right :3

Yeah!!!! lol. I'm sorry to hear that because I know exactly how much of a pain it is to have to go through that 5 times. Sounds like you're vision might be slightly better than mine. I can read without my glasses on but not without holding the book "just" a little too close so as not to look a little silly or like I might be hiding haha. Well that must feel good to get compliments on them. I'm pretty used to my glasses now, most of the time I even forget I'm wearing them. Well I would HOPE that I'm used to them by now, I've been wearing them for about 10ish years! Lol. Sometimes I feel that I would look more attractive without them but meh. That's right! It DID give him quite the change. he looked pretty awesome on that world.(starts hearing "This Is Halloween" in head now lol). I've always loved reading myself and I guess I did pretty well. I was evaluated once (forgot why) and it turned out that before I was even in the 11th grade, I was already at a college level in reading. I don't know "how" impressive that really is but it sounded like it. Reading books.....its just...like it can take you to another world, ya know? After playing a ton of video games, watching anime and other show's and reading books (manga and regular books) I've realized that along with being sucked in by a good story line, I'm also a sucker for the love interest aspect in things. Apparently seeing the love interest "insert anime/game/book etc pairing here" come together in the end can be all I need for reasoning to make my way to the end sometimes. I feel the same way pretty much. I try to take what's said in game reviews with a grain of salt. Sometimes you just have to try and read between the lines to get the best out of reading a game review. I read an article on an anime movie......From Up On Poppy Hill...I think was the movie? Anyway I read it and I didn't care for the review, not because it said the movie was terrible or anything like that but because at least half the article was the author complaining about WHO worked on the movie and WHO didn't really work on it and WHO was mostly just taking over for credit or something like that. Barely anything was actually said about what the movie was about. So yeah, most articles are best taken with a grain of salt, especially when personal opinions are involved that might take away from the more factual aspects of the game or whatever it is about but definitely when one is reading game reviews. Best to just look at the parts of the review that do not sound like they ring with the tone of personal opinion.