ManLeftForDead

i was really into drugs. she can speak, but she's only been talking for a little over a year so she has a lisp....and she's asian so her r's sound like l's lol. i agree about the whole marriage thing. again, too many people jump into it because of the kid. i think it's really cool that you have names picked out. not a lot of men share that bit of info.

no regrets. she saved my life. i never thought men thought about kid names. then again, i never thought men thought about marriage that often. i thought only girls had those kinds of thoughts, but i guess it's because we talk about it so openly and it's expected of us more.

you'll get what you get lol. don't plan on having aboy first because you might get a girl. and you're right. she is important to me. she's my whole life.

it's true. it is a lot of responsibilty to raise another human. a lot of people don't think about it like that. in all honesty, i wasn't ready to be a parent until the doctor put her bloody, gooey body in my arms. lol, that's when something changed. some people are natural parents and others aren't. just make sure you're ready before you have one.

i don't think anyone is ever ready to be a parent. there are some that accept the fact that they will be and others that hand their kids off any chance they get.

absolutley. i used to work fulltime and go to school, but any chance i got to see zoe, i did and i didn't take it for granted. now, i work part time (although it felt like fulltime for the past month) i get more time with her and i love every second of it. like right now, we're watching toy story 3 lol. at least you're kind enough to watch him. i'm sure he really enoys spending time with you.