kirito2187

okay so i'm gonna be honest here in hopes to get actual good advice. so i'm fresh out of a seven year relationship and not great at the whole dating scene. i definitely don't want to just jump on the whole "lets go to bars and try to meet girls" thing that most guys think is a good idea these days. since high school i've wanted to meet a girl who not only is genuinely nice but also has similar interests (aka a nerd lol) and to this day (i'm 26 btw) have yet to find one. i'm not going to lie and say i'm on a constant hunt for a girl or desperate to jump into a relationship, but going from being with someone and being in love(or so i thought) for seven years to being on my own again isn't very enjoyable. i have learned quickly that no matter how honest you try to be or real you are when it comes to talking to girls online that you almost always fall into a sea of guys that are all doing the same thing and then its almost as if your competing to be the most compatible one out of the bunch. that's a pretty shitty situation to be in. i've also learned that even online its not very likely that girls would approach guys which makes it almost certain that you have to just be the best fish in the sea. i don't even know what i'm asking... i guess i just want to know if i'm the only one who feels this way or if there are girls who feel this way about guys? but i guess if there is a point or actual question to ask its this... how or what is the best way to approach a girl and not just seem like a creep or just another fish in the sea? any advice would probably be helpful and if not helpful then just the conversation alone might be helpful in the sense of knowing i'm not the only one who thinks this way so... ready, set, conversate! lol