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If an IQ test wasn't taken at a university or equivalent testing site, it's not legit. If a person thinks an online IQ test is legit, their IQ is a lot lower than they think it is. Having done both, I can assure you that paper IQ tests done on site are considerably more difficult. Also, anyone who pays to be a part of Mensa should, by default, subtract 10 from their IQ score.

I'll admit I didn't read through all the replies people have already lain out so I may be repeating what has already been said. Date a different type of girl; don't be the crying shoulder, guy-friend-that-gets-vented-to from the get go; you're not being seen as an equal when you put yourself in that position and it makes you much more likely to get cheated on, especially if you're not around due to work. If I've learned anything from my own mistakes, it's that most relationships fail simply due to a lack of communication--the fear of saying what you really feel and getting a negative response from the one you care about. This, and ignoring red flags. Don't ignore red flags just because a person has other good attributes--even the worst people have something good about them. Nobody is perfect, and minor flaws are negligible, but never dismiss big issues. Women and men think differently, and that's completely ok. Many people hate to admit this, but if they had, it's very possible their relationships would have gone a different direction. Instead, they end up bitter towards the other sex, entering a grass-is-greener, "men are this", "woman are that" type of mindset. It's easy to get around this difference-in-thinking issue so long as you're actually honest with one another when you bring up concerns to the other party, and when things go wrong you think about what you did incorrectly rather than only focusing on how you were wronged (conversely, blaming only yourself isn't constructive either). If you grow bitter at how you were wronged, you'll never evolve as a person from one relationship to the next, and you'll treat your new partners with leftover animosity from the previous. If either person doesn't do their part you end up in a game of mental gymnastics, and eventually (not necessarily due to cheating) your relationship is going to fail. Again, date a girl different in personality from the previous ones, and under different circumstances.