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acebandage @acebandage

Feb 12, 24 at 2:36am

Do you have the links to those tests you took? I'm curious to see what I would get even though I'm already in a relationship.

Why are you single?

DELETED_USER @amarantha commented on Why are you single?

DELETED_USER @amarantha

Feb 11, 24 at 12:01am

Took tests online cause idk what really to type here...

DELETED_USER @amarantha I’ll try to find them and post em on your wall. ^^

acebandage @acebandage

Feb 12, 24 at 2:30am

I miss receiving the red envelopes as a kid.

yuuzora @yuuzora

Feb 10, 24 at 1:32pm

yuuzora @yuuzora Same! This year due to time constraints, I wasn't even able to make hot pot, mochi, or even get mikan. :(

acebandage @acebandage

Feb 12, 24 at 2:24am

Do you accept Sweethearts like we did back as kids in school? If I give more, my partner might become jealous. ^_-

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DELETED_USER @amarantha

Feb 11, 24 at 7:07pm

It’s me…Hi…I’m the problem, it’s me…

DELETED_USER @amarantha Yall exchange candies? I did not experience that. I am from a Catholic School and during Valentines Day we just attend a school program. We bring gifts like flowers/chocolates/letters but it is mostly given to teachers rather than classmates/schoolmates. Lol.

acebandage @acebandage

Feb 07, 24 at 2:41pm

How far down that rabbit hole? You have no idea. ^_- She does get annoyed sometimes that she thinks I don't take these issues seriously enough. As for other Asians, I'm Lao/Vietnamese. Is it good enough that I think you're doing fine? ^^

acebandage @acebandage

Feb 07, 24 at 1:47pm

No problem about rants, my partner often goes off on politics and how the world will end soon. Well, let's say you actually succeed in getting affirmation. How do you measure success?

yuuzora @yuuzora Oof. A political doomsayer? How far down the rabbit hole? Is at least dark humor and witty? I hope it's not a full time thing? As far as just being accepted... especially by the Asian side... Even just a small part of them would suffice. Just hearing that I am enough to be counted. But to be fair I don't interact with enough other Asians, especially Japanese since that's what I am. I live in mostly white and hispanic area. It'd just be nice to have a group to belong to other than the 'evil red headed step child' club that no one wants to be in. I don't even mark 'asian' in most applications that ask. I feel too guilty about it.

acebandage @acebandage

Feb 07, 24 at 1:47pm

No problem about rants, my partner often goes off on politics and how the world will end soon. Well, let's say you actually succeed in getting affirmation. How do you measure success?

yuuzora @yuuzora

Feb 06, 24 at 5:12pm

Truth is part of it is acceptance. Generally I wouldn't care what others thought of me, but since this piece of myself has been a source of trauma since I can remember, it hits differently. Accusations of racism, being excluded from important events like Christmas and St. Patrick's Day, or Obon and Lunar New Year, etc. In this case just being stared down just reminds me of all that. I tried not to dwell on it but I couldn't get it out of my head. Which is why I wrote it out. Generally no one reads my profile, so I usually just write what I'm thinking. I'm sorry to have inconvenience you with my rantings.

acebandage @acebandage

Feb 06, 24 at 1:50pm

Greetings, greetings... It seems like you're trying to please others in order to get acceptance. Is that the right way to go? Isn't it better to please yourself and have others accept who you are? If they can't do that, why are you even making the attempt?

yuuzora @yuuzora

Feb 05, 24 at 10:31pm

One of the hardest things about being 'part white' is getting glared at by some Chinese people because I'm wearing a wei-ji(era) hanfu I got as a gift last year. No matter if you're standing in a room of all Asian or all white, you're never good enough to sit with either. So you stay standing and hope you can just live your life in peace. It hurts in a place I don't think we talk about enough.