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abbiyuy

37 year old Female
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Last online 11年以上 ago
manleftfordead
Yeah, though I honestly can say I don't know if anyone works with him at his mothers place. It's possible, but I have no idea. hmm I'll give it a shot, would be nice to learn sign language too.
nomoreheroes
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Dec 28, 12 at 9:05pm
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manleftfordead
Dang you work quite a bit with her. :o That's really awesome you read to her and have her read to you. I don't even know if my nephew can even read, or really anything. I honestly don't want to work with him cuz I feel it should be his parents job, but I don't think they really are(I know my brother doesn't really) Like we make him say stuff like please, thank you, and some other words to get him to improve on just talking and well what to say at times. Though I believe he's very behind, and I don't want him to be behind cuz his parents aren't helping him. So I guess I'll see what I can do, I'll try reading to him and repeat the alphabet. Sadly the sign language is little hard for me. o.o Though he does love books, he runs around with them at times... I know he brought me a book which I have no idea where it came from(Probably my brothers room). A "Drive Him Wild: A Hands-On Guide to Pleasuring Your Man in Bed" book... which I was just like uhhh o.o NO!
manleftfordead
Aww, she's like your little hero. :) Just makes her so much more special, and that's really a awesome thing to hear that she saved you from that. Makes you both awesome. Ohh :o Like is she able to tell you stuff? Like putting together sentences? Just wondering if my nephew is really behind on his talking. I don't think anyone is really working with him, and was curious if you work with her as well? Aww that sounds adorable! :O Yeah, there's just a bunch of people who are jumping into marriage and being a parent without even thinking. I mean some turn out really good, but it's the ones that give it up that make me mad/sad. :( Hopefully when my time comes I've thought it through very well. ^.^ Well I think I'm different than some men, I may not be the maturest, but I do favor the adult life of being a parent one day. I also don't think most men would be the one thinking of having a kid one day especially a daughter. :P
manleftfordead
Aww, saved your life? D: Also may I ask is she able to speak well? I don't think many men think of kids names too well unless it's maybe a boy, probably something common too or after them. haha Maybe those would just be boys and not men. :P To me I think about names, like for a girl I really love the names Julia and Lily, though something unique would be nice. Marriage is a tough one, mean it's not something really to be taken lightly and jump into it.
manleftfordead
Yeah I don't exactly plan on it, but it would be nice. But I do want a daughter badly, even have a name picked out. o.o I mean I can't expect or wish for a gender really, cuz I don't want to feel like I'm disappointed. That would be unfair to the child, to say I wanted a girl, but yet I got a boy. Aww :) Yeah it really shows, especially when talking to you I know you don't regret anyways.
manleftfordead
^.^ I honestly want to one day experience that special moment, and hopefully one day have a little boy, then a little girl. :D So my son can protect my little girl. You are extremely lucky to have her. :) I can see in your pictures that she's extremely important to you. Yeah or they just throw them away because it's not what they expected...
manleftfordead
Yeah, lots of people underestimate the hard work and everything of having a child. Some people just think Oh a child! It's going to be fun having my own kid! But they don't realise how much work it will be, it can be stressful. I would never compare my experience of watching my nephew with one's experience with have their own child, I could never imagine how it feels. Oh I bet, I just can't imagine what goes on in someone's head when you first look upon their newborn child. That truly must be a special moment, and I honestly think about one day doing that and it just fills me with feels. :P At the point it's not Oh I have to take care and be responsible for this child, it's I want to care and be responsible. Agreed, right now I'd slap myself if I jumped into having a child, but even if I wasn't ready I'd make sure I do everything in my power to care for that child. ^.^
manleftfordead
That's true, even though I watch my nephew A LOT... I don't think I'm actually ready to be a parent, maybe I could be, maybe I couldn't. Honestly much MUCH more different than me just watching him this long. Huge responsibility and you can't just really quit.. Well you can I guess, but that would be extremely bullshit to do unless it's something for the child's safety.
manleftfordead
Oh wow! that's tough, I don't see how you managed that! Though yeah Kid>World, I'd make time for my own child. My brother honestly said he's not really a kid person when they are like 2yrs old, he's really excited for when he's like 5yrs old though. To be honest they weren't ready for a child, especially his mother who I must say is the only person I hate. (Sorry I rant when it comes to her) Aww glad you get to spend more time with her, haha aw how's she liking it? My nephew woke up and is... uhh.. making a mess of the house, he was watching a movie he put on, but now he's running around *Smashes face in desk*. To be honest wasn't too thrilled, I mean I know he's my nephew and all, but I honestly don't have that special bond a father and his child have. Do like having him, but it restricted me from stuff at times, which I guess I get the feel of what it's like to have a kid. :P
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