In my opinion, don't do it man. You guys can still be friends, but i would keep my distance. It seems she's going through an emotional roller coaster and could be trying to use you as a plan B. Think about it, why would she come running to you and express her feelings now AFTER having not only physical encounters with someone else but having 2 children with them? You ain't her fall back guy, her man walked out on her and now she's chasing Mr.Nice Guy because she knows she can manipulate you. It's nice that you care for her as a friend, but you have a whole life ahead of you, now isn't the time for fatherhood. Your friend and her baby father need to take responsibility for their actions, not you. Now that she is a mother of two, she will most definitely try to fill that father gap with you, who else is suppose to feed them if she's at home taking care of the kids? The problem with giving her a chance is that this is all too soon, she probably still doesn't know what she wants and you don't want to get tangled in something you're not ready for. You were always there for her back then, and yet she neglected your feelings for someone who would later leave her as a single mother of two. Honestly, its up to you, but you're playing with fire if you choose to pursue.

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OI i already made a thread for this http://www.maiotaku.com/topics/34155

It's only awkward if either of you make it that way. Hell I was engaged at one point myself and it never worked out and she's living with her new boyfriend but we're still good friends regardless of what's happened in the past and I'm totally fine with that o/ It's fine to be upset about it but once you're ready just try your best to move on, be kind to yourself and treat yourself to feel better and eventually someone else will come along and sweep you off your feet o/ Oh and don't ever worry about your sexuality - you're you and that aspect will never change that :D

I like the idea though I kinda feel I should have some input on it. Or there should be some standard filter for it. For me for example a early thirty or mid twenties at least. Maybe I missed the setting option as I mostly use my phone for this site. :)

You sound pretty young. I'm sorry to say, but not everyone is going to have your best interest in mind. Getting hurt is a big part of life. Pain makes us stronger. You have to learn from your pain, so you don't make the same mistake again. If you feel like you're being used, you should think about it and if you are you have to break it off before it's too late. However, you have to keep in mind that there are people out there who you can trust. When you let the right people in, they can be pretty great.