I'm a dude that tries to look good for the ladies (the results have varied), and I honestly have never stared at myself in the mirror for 5 minutes to determine how I wanna look xD

As much as I think many guys want to treat this site like a dating one, the reality is over the years its evolved into more a social media site for anime fans. The distance, varied range of ages (including minors), and typical dating site hurdles of a disproportionate number of guys to girls don't make it much easier for people wanting to use this site to find a relationship.

Oh quite a number honestly - most of which I talk to on Discord very regularly but some I still talk to though dms here on MO. I like making genuine long term friends so I put in as much effort as I can for people I want to spend time with.