Hello there, welcome to MO. You'll find friendly people on here.

That's fine, you don't have to be super accurate. It's just it's a funny thing, attention. It's something people crave but hate, but you bring a nice point about how the more you look at it and the more people point it out, the worse it gets. When I was a kid, I learned how to read by myself much before anyone else my age so I had a lot of attention then that got boring and suddenly no more attention. It's different than my own question but that sucked lol. Then, it's not entirely true but guys never get compliments (mom and aunts saying you're beautiful doesn't count, their love is unconditional) but once I started crossplaying, I get a few comments on it and I really enjoy it but I'm too innocent about it, like, pretty sure some comments I get aren't entirely "good". I'm like, wait should I enjoy that compliment, was it malicious? I can tell being cat-called isn't good even though it feels good, in a way. First thing I can think of is girls usually get a lot of attention, part of me think they're lucky but then I stop that thought, actually it must be pretty annoying and even make them uncomfortable, after a while. Lamby also brings the point of disliking being in the spotlight. I hate that too, I like small amounts at a time but never like being the center of attention.

Just ask . It's worse when you think later "What would happen if i asked her?" Don't live with regrets m8 (funny how most of the guys say "just ask" and the females says "go with your friends" xD) @melk DAMN BOI, you got some player vibes