It's not when you have a person that comes to you with an open mind and an open heart. But, that is very rare to find these days as you imagine. But, I know several right now so you are not alone. This is also a good topic glad you made it.

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About a 10, the way I dress and my extremely deep voice makes people flock to me like I'm handing out money, I don't ask for this either I usually have a aggressive or blank annoyed stare on my face and usually ignore people when they speak to me and act as aggressive as possible, or put headphones over my ears while they're talking to get them to piss off. but still I stick out too much I seem to get way more attention and people wanting to talk to me than I care for it's actually annoying, it's probably the top hat and my personality mostly. Most of my friends don't even speak they just enjoy me talking and the atmosphere I bring everywhere with me.