Agreeing with some previous posts, it's a matter of perpsective. Instead of looking at it as trying and failing to find someone, maybe just see it as learning and preparing for THE ONE. Don't if there's any polygamists here, but if you're looking for that special someone amongst literally millions of ppl, chances r you're not gonna find them the first few times around. That's just reality. Just learn what u can with each relationship that didn't work out, so when that special one shows up, you'll b ready.

dandaman may have been closer than u think. like an otaku fairy hovering over you on ur dragoncon experience (Had a 2-way flight to Austin, where I switched planes in Atlanta on Friday). HUGE AIRPORT DOE