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augos
Oct 03, 13 at 8:12pm
edit: (the "last straw" i was talking about happened in a designated study room at school that can only fit about 8 people usually i do go somewhere else or don't look like in the streets or a big train station, but this particuar situation was unnacceptable but me having to not look or go somewhere else is still bs anywhere i am aware that french kissing in public in america is percieved as acceptable by most but i also think that is due to oversexxed media socially conditioning the masses) Today was the last straw. I've been trying to extinguish my anger but can't any longer so here's a dislike vent, but I also want to discuss this with you guys in a constructive manner (after i vent lol). As a guy who's never even been on a date (tried and failed many times, not like I didn't try) I am really pissed off at people who are obviously showing off to everyone that they are couple or anything a little bit less than that. So for the constructive part, what do you think about public affection? Do you not mind seeing it? Would you do it? Have you done it? How does that work in your mind? If you have done it don't you care about the feelings you might be hurting around you, or was that the point? I'll admit some of it is jealousy (except when they're ugly lol) but most of it is just disgust of how basic feelings are directly attacked whether it was intended or not. To me it's a form of bullying and I'd never do it overtly for prolonged periods of time because I know how it feels to be around it. I'd be quick and discreet instead for public affection unless it's something passive like holding hands, THEN I could do it for a longer time in the open. p.s.: Don't tell me to chill out about this just answer the questions and agree with me to make me feel better =D
otaku_prince
I can understand how you feel, there's a part of me that gets jealous when I see people displaying PDA in public, especially being single. I can also get that if you're really into each other and can't help but be affectionate. Personally I would do a little, such as holding hands, hugging, kissing, but making out in public is something I wouldn't do.
augos
Oct 03, 13 at 8:21pm
*Edited as "SLEEZY Public Affection"* sorry had to clarify
alexislynn
I find it disgusting when people are sucking each other's faces off in public. Holding hands and a peck on the lips is fine, but do not make out, please. And don't grope constantly...
augos
Oct 03, 13 at 9:24pm
you didn't read my post SLEEZY is the keyword some lite kissing is no problem the examples you listed as excusable i also listed as excusable, so you need to pay more careful attention how were they to know i'm single how were they to know i'm not, there's bound to be singles who witness it duh you're basing your logic on the assumption that everyone they make out in front of is probably not single (at least in their minds) which makes no sense
frozentruth
I don't mind see hand holding I see it all the time in the hallway but then there's one hallway manly right next to me class were people are just sucking each others faces :# Also diving down the street I saw a this couple kissing right next to the street for the whole road too see you can be a happy couple i just don't need to see it to that extent
anjukuran
Oct 04, 13 at 11:13am
Meh, i don't let it get to me, if they want to make-out let them, its a free country.
leonix
Oct 04, 13 at 11:18am
lol agreed its good for the mind and soul.
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