Sexuality!

I am crossing the line -grins- In all seriousness though, what made you realize you were gay? Girls and guys? Bi even? I've been really curious to know you're stories :) How did you come out? Were you're parents accepting? How has it worked out for you? I'm just confused all around, welcome to my life :)

I was about 14 when I realized I wasn't only attracted to girls, but it wasn't until years later that I completely sorted that out in my head. I went through a few periods in my life where I experimented and feel like I bopped around a bit on the Kinsey scale, and finally narrowed down where I am at about a 1, maybe a little higher. Which is to say: I can be attracted to guys, and I've been involved with them before in certain contexts, but I am really only romantically interested in women.

An ex-friend questioned me on being lesbian. I hadn't even thought of labels up to that point. Thus began my long battle of feeling the need to label myself. Still to this day I am unsure if I fit into any said label, and really I could care less. There are no rules that say you need to put something like sexuality to your name. I've come out to certain friends while using the terms bi or panromantic. I have never come out to my parent, though I know she would accept it. I will probably keep it that way too unless I end up dating someone of the female gender/sex.

There honestly is no label or boundary with me. Though I consider myself Pansexual, I have no boundaries in what I think is beautiful! It doesn't matter to me. If I want to be romantically involved with someone I don't care about anything but who that person is. I don't tell people about this much because its honestly not a label. I don't have any kinda want for a certain sex. If I adore you its not gonna matter who or what you are I will want to be with you. I have only dated guys, but If I dated a girl I would not care. My family does not know about this, but honestly it doesn't matter. Most people do not understand that kinda way of thinking they want to write you off as lesbian or bisexual when that's defiantly not the case for me. ^_^ I love someone because of them, not because there male, female or whatever. Though I do need to be physically attracted to someone still has nothing to do with someone's gender or sexuality.