Confessions

I confess!!! That this thread is kind of depressing. Everyone's talking about how sad and depressed and how they can't love after a break up? Come onnnnn. Yeah, sure it sucks. Getting hurt, that pain you feel. Sucks some big fucking dick. But it passes! And keeping yourself guarded from affection won't do you any good! Live! Love! Laugh! Hurt and cry! And then live again!! Thats what life is! All will be well with time. You'll look back a year or two from now and realize how silly it is to be some torn up over something that will never be. So stop belly aching about what has happened, and get ready for what can be! :) Life won't be better unless you make it so! Nobody wants to be sad, so change it! It's in your hands!

@anna I'm just not one of those that believes it is better to have loved and lost to have never loved at all. I've picked up more quirks and habits etc, that are annoying and make more work for myself than what I've gained that's positive that's still with me. (Those things weren't annoying when together but now it's just extra work that i don't want to bother with)

You can feel absolutely irrelevant regardless of love mang, everyone has their own story it seems but they all seem pretty relatable.

@Ed you'll be surprised how much a real woman appreciates a man that's comfortable with himself. It's not about talking to every girl, it's about making just a few conversations matter

LOL don't be a fuckboy. Just know who you are. appreciate how far you've come, but strive to make tomorrow's you even better!