Confessions

Yeah I agree. Honesty is good unless you need to make a little white lie or just omit something and not mention it if you know that it will needlessly make them worry because you know there's not a problem or there won't be a problem. Also I can't overstate enough how important good communication is in a relationship. You have to bring up things that bother you and you had to bring them up at the right time and not when it's too late to do anything about it. Seriously those two things can make or break a relationship no matter how solid it is.

Lolz. That's kind of funny, but honestly I would probably make the same mistake knowing me. xD My brother is like that too. He will tell me something is really good, but I know he is lying and I'll get told later that he was. D; Honestly I wish I could cook like my mother.. Yes communication is super important. I dunno how many times I've tried talking to a boyfriend about something and they either lie or won't give me a straight answer. Other times they just won't tell me what's wrong or bring anything up to me so I never know what's going on. Its hard to try to fix something if only one person is trying.

ugh i feel your feels fatalis idk why men feel the need to bottle up everything or think lying is an option to solve a problem makes no sense to me

Yeah it's practically impossible. A relationship takes two people and you can either Propel it forward or you can steer it but you can't do both at the same time and either way it won't end up well if you try to do either one without someone at the helm at the other end

@Muffin-Senpai You're so right about that. Great advice, if something is bugging you you should tell that person. Keeping things bottled up especially is a recipe for disaster... I've almost made that mistake once, its only fair to the other person that you are honest about issues you have. @Lamby Do you mean copy and paste the address of the gif? My computer won't let me paste the image :P. Hang on I'll test it... Sweet *hugs* thanks :), no schmeckles required XD. https://media.giphy.com/media/paIgG3ssdjL4k/giphy.gif

@Lamby In my experience women often bottle things up... I've dated 3 girls, and pretty much all of them wouldn't tell me what was wrong if I messed up or if something happened to them. -_- and thus I'm single lol.

@lamby Both men and women suffer from that problem though it is typically more men that do it. @auntron_ Thanks haha. I've made that mistake a couple of times but usually it's because I'm still getting to know someone and half the time they have trust issues. When it ends up with something like that usually yes telling them about certain things will worry them needlessly but with certain kinds of people if they suspect something and then they suspect you were lying then that will make them worry even more than they would have if you just told them the truth.

gz xD!! extra points for takeo :P! deff best guy

wweellll im that way too, if im mad ill get even madder and stubborn if he doesnt know why xD but if its a relationship issue it has to be sat down and talked about though they never want to talk about it and feel like things are great when there not >_> like because hes happy how i feel doesnt matter >_>..... *deep breaths* xD

xD I'm single because I can be an ass and I'm too independent for most of the men I choose to be with..they don't like me being the dominant aspect of the relationship and I guess I make them feel...inferior?