Brave Shyguys

Question for the ladies and guys who have experience in this: Would you give a ahyguy a chance if he tried to be assertive (in a non-jerky and non-offensive way)? Like he got a confidence powwrup but it was still obvious that he had some lack of confidence, but was giving effort into being confident and all that stuff. Would that still turn you off, would that be endearing, would that be boyfriend material? I ask because I'm confident with everything except girls. And that turns them off then that makes me less confident. I can't all of a sudden be baseline confident, and even after practice that's not who I am. I don't want to lie to myself. I can try to be confident in female company but it's definitely gonna show, but I feel that my struggling with this should be given a chance. I understand timid guys who don't take initiative can be a turn-off, but what if he mans-up? Qnd what if that manning-up is not instantanious? So I ask you, are you willing to give brave shyguys a chance? Or will you want to leave him if he's not already 100% confident around you?

Of course its going to be better than not trying at all I think its safe to say every girlis going to agree with me now granted its not going to make you instant attractive and honestly if someone has already seen your lack of confidence they are not likely to just change their opinion of you soon but if they notice a trend you are more likely to change your image in their eyes. Simply put false confidence is better then no confidence similar to the army saying of false motivation is better than no motivation .

Hmm... well technically the guy I am interested in is shy, but he actually was assertive in that he made sure he talked to me and such like :) So yes, shy guys have a chance ;)