How to meet a girl to introduce me to shonen-ai, yaoi

Long time anime fan, but new to the shonen-ai and yaoi genres. Now that I have more understanding of what they are about, I'd like to enjoy them with a girl (and I know there are a lot of girls who are big fans)!

I think it's cool that you are being open minded towards new genres, and I applaud you for that. Now in my personal opinion, I prefer shonen-ai/yaoi manga more than the actual anime. So if you ever need a few titles for some good ones, or if you just want to rave about some you're already into just let me know.

Free Jouki Romance or whatever its called Black Butler Kuroko no Basketball ur welcome (and as for a girl who likes that stuff any con will have them, there everywhere...)

Lol yeah. Junjou Romantica is the best one for starting out. It was my first too. But whatever you do don't go for Boku No Pico right away it will burn your eyes out and make you never want to watch anime again.