are thier still any noble men in the world?

i like guys who are kind but most of all loyal and will stand by me fover and not care about money or apperance. sadly it seems really hard to find people like that :( and when i do my shy persanality gets in the way, and i wait for them to ask me out. are thier even still men out their like this?

Money and appearance will always matter. It's true that you can live without money or not care about appearance and still be decently happy but to say that money doesn't matter is kinda ignorant. Same with appearance. The reason why you're having problems with finding the guy of your dreams as you explained is because you're shy. While everyone is shy to a certain extent in different situations... you can't expect everything to come to you without any effort. What makes this all even harder is that the only way you're going to get someone to come to you and ask you out is if you're somewhat attractive to them, physically, or you have to not be shy and show that you personality is worth their time. That's what I've learned over the years of pretending that the "Right" person will come to me.

There are a lot of those guys out there. Probably a lot more than the douchebag type of guys. The question is if you're picky, if not, open yourself up to people and work on not being shy. That's the only way you'll increase your chances.

My question is if you want somebody that won't try to change you but will you try to change them if they have something you don't like

ive never been picky i dont care about looks or anything like that and i would never try to change anyone, i think people are diffrent for a reason and thats what makes eveyone special :)

No, they're all gone. I'm terribly sorry. I'm sure some still do exist on this forum. Maybe it's not a question of appearence as much as "settling" for someone. Who is willing to do this?