Kinda Of A Downer

I try multiple relationship sites and women never respond, I try to initiate first contact. Am I doing something wrong? I mean I show confidence and all but to no prevail.

o.o this site is slow mind you. Maybe if you showed your face that would show more confidence. Are you being yourself? are you enjoying talking to them? when you can be yourself you display the utmost amount of confidence

I don't care for a girls looks she can have jug that could float in water or mosquito bits. I love personality over everything. I would admire their looks don't get me wrong, just not the most important to me.

lol Wallace, good advice. Well the fact is Terumi your expecting too much. Some girl isn't going to take interest you in the span of the few weeks you been here. It could take months, years. If your out looking for prey, there all going to hide. Just relax, have fun. If you cant have fun on this site go find a hobby to have fun with.

I'm not suspecting as much, just the initial contact usual never start. I try to start a convo, but the never respond back.

I know how it is. I've been on plenty of fish, okaycupid and I'm really close to trying eharmony. The truth is years ago, these sort of mediums didn't exist. People met through chat rooms where you didn't exchange photos right away. The irony of it all is now we have these sites at our fingertips and we still can't get a date. They've done studies and made ten fake profiles. The most attractive looking females GOT ALL of the adornment and messages, then the "lesser perceived" attractive females, THEN the really good looking guys and then the average guys. This site is a great outlet and it can be very frustrating because some of the girls log in once a week but you can't force them to like you. Rome wan't built in a day. Terumi, are you having any luck here? Even engaging in some sort of conversation is a step in the right direction.

I know, i only try to talk the ones with similar interests.But as said they never respond, don't know why being ignored just triggers a bipolar reaction.