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Friendship Problem!!

kawaiidango
Weewhoo weewhoo!!!! My total asshole friend is being well....an asshole. D: Even more than usual!! Usually he just teases me and stuff but today!! I was about to write that bastards name in my death note!!! He called me dirty and pushed my into someone T_T UGH!! He HATES me!! I didn't do ANYTHING D: He stopped sitting with me and my friends, he stopped talking to us almost completely, and he's BEING AN ASS!!!! It seems that all my friends keep leaving me QAQ
alucard317
Oh, what a bad day you had. I wish you to get new and real friends that would not betray or tease you. ^_^
moonlightjazz
Why were you friends with him in the first place if he treats you like that? You can find better friends and dont need someone like that. Forget about him and hang out with your real friends cause real friends would never be mean or do anything to hurt you.
j_oxford
Mar 14, 13 at 8:41pm
Maybe he is on his period? Don't need to waste your time with him if he is being rude. Friendship is a privilege.
hime
Mar 14, 13 at 9:42pm
I say just ignore him from here on out. I had a really bad friend who I recently stopped talking to, and the more I ignored her, the more she left me alone. I think the best course of action is to just not react to him, because once he sees he can't get anything out of you anymore, he'll move on to bothering somebody else. :)
nerdalous
Maybe he likes you and he is seeking advice from another group of people you don't know.
kyetge
Mar 14, 13 at 11:36pm
I had an asshole friend like that. It's better to ditch the bitch. Find people who will respect you if you have already let him know he crossed an invisible boundary and he hasn't changed.
xueli
Mar 15, 13 at 12:02am
That is not cool. If he is getting advise about having a crush on you from other people, they are totally telling him the wrong things. If he's already pushing you and your other friends away (mentally and physically) I'd just be like, F that dude, message received I'll get out of your face, you do you man. But if he physically touched me, there'd be some words exchanged...
doubt_equals_ammo
OK...KawaiiAttack, I'm not going to baby you, because this is a trend that, if I can stop it now, it outweighs the consequence of me appearing a douche. I could just ask if it's the 'same friend as before' and then reply with "no comment", but you're young, and you may not have had the proper people giving you 'tough love' advice, yet. My advice: You. Cannot. Save. Everybody. Stop trying to seek approval from everyone. In life, there will be people that like you, but there will also be people that won't. Deal. There are ways that you can sway people to one side or another, but ultimately, the percentage chance of 'fake friends' is considerably higher if you do that. This [approval seeking] is a trait that you do NOT want. It's a trait that gets people to stay in bad relationships "because he/she loves me". It's one of the worst feelings in the world to have had to beat a dude's @s$ because he attacked a woman just to have him stare at me with a winning grin as he's holding her the next week.
doubt_equals_ammo
Why do I accuse you of this [approval seeking trait]? The signs: -You said, "My total asshole friend". I have friends that can BE @$s#oles, but not as$h0le friends. There's a HUGE difference. -You also said, "USUALLY, he just teases me and stuff". I take this as this is a regular thing. If you didn't want everyone to like you, this would never happen. Develop the "You're an a$_hole, so f*ck off" technique. What obligations do you have to 'friends' that are idiots? Even better question...what about 'friends' that 'let' it happen? -You, in a later statement, said, "It seems that all my friends keep leaving me". One quality friend is better than infinite s#i++y ones. Trust me on that.
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